Loving an AQUARIUS is one of the most fulfilling experiences you can have. Their fascinating character makes them the best partners out there.
The good, the bad, the AQUARIUS.
Are you looking for a woman who is really “out of this world”? Congratulations, you were able to set her free in the Aquarian woman!
As the mostly unconventional member of the zodiac family, Aquarius is known for being unique, outrageously quirky, incredibly charming, highly intelligent, and a little bit revolutionary. The AQUARIUS is a profound thinker who is constantly reinventing himself and enriching the lives of his fellow human beings with an endless stream of new ideas and experiences.
She’s really interesting, and once you’ve managed to win her well-guarded heart, she should keep you under her spell for a long time to come.
Generous, honest and funny as hell, she is a woman you will admire and adore. But as seductive and fascinating as she is, the Aquarius woman is the most paradoxical woman in the entire zodiac sign. It is not for the faint of heart learning to deal with their eccentric ways. But for a warm, confident man who loves the challenge, the Aquarius woman is the ultimate dream woman.
Here’s what you need to know about Aquarius to woo them:
1. She’s damn smart.
The Aquarius woman is undoubtedly the greatest “smart ass at the [zodiac] party” and is known for her superior intellect. But what distinguishes the AQUARIUS is its incomparable depth. Not only does she “think” about things, she also explores them … thoroughly, from every imaginable angle (and she’s as exuberant as a happy schoolgirl).
It’s not enough for her to know only superficially about a topic (Jeopardy facts alone don’t impress), the Aquarian woman is hungry to understand the deeper, coherent “how” and “why” of any topic that piques her interest .
Making love with your thoughts is therefore not an option, it is a must! An AQUARIUS woman NEEDs a man who can keep up with her intellectually. Exchanging well-thought-out ideas is incredibly exciting for her.
If you touch her mind in the right way, she will glow and sparkle with excitement. But if the conversation doesn’t really stimulate her, she’ll get bored and quickly turn to someone else.
2. It (often) gets stuck in your head.
The downside of her keen thought is that the Aquarian woman is often disconnected from herself. If you tell her that she “thinks too much” or “thinks too much”, it hurts her feelings deeply – she cannot help it and will deny you access to her body until you stop her from thinking about it.
Since the transition from brain to body is not easy for an Aquarian woman, she often lacks sensuality. Help her by pointing out physical experiences that may baffle her brain – like the baffling breeze that touches her skin or the nuances of the delicious meal you have just served her.
As a fixed sign of air, the Aquarian woman is often perceived as cold, aloof or emotionally closed. It is not. She is just trapped in her mind most of the time (where she feels most comfortable and strongest) and almost always needs some persuasion. The man who can rid this side of her will be very rewarded because …
3. She is adventurous.
The AQUARIUS is incredibly curious, open-minded, and known for loving the unconventional. That makes her especially fun and adventurous in the bedroom (or in the back seat, or somewhere outside, or … well, you get it). She is usually ready to ponder anything (as long as she feels it is her choice).
However, it is very important to tie your mind to the act of making love (otherwise your thought will quickly wander). You are supposed to turn on her brain and body at the same time by telling her exactly what you want to do with her next while she is making love. In addition, a strong, firm touch captivates their attention much more than a gentle, lulling one.
4. She hates cheesy love.
Aquarius women are very practical and value being original and real. Therefore, they value sincerity more than ostentatious displays of affection. Go ahead and skip Valentine’s Day, she doesn’t care – it’s a cliché party anyway. But forget her birthday and she will quickly forget you.
Aquarius women love it when you court them because they want (read: MUST) to feel like they’re special. If you post flowery expressions of love on her Facebook wall, she’ll refuse (because it looks like you’re trying to put yourself in the spotlight – “oh wow, what a great friend he is” – instead of something to her) Sincere to say).
She definitely wants a romantic relationship, but the practical side of her wants her to be grounded and real. Also, expect her to show that she appreciates you with gestures and gifts. General gifts and predictable shows of affection are not their thing.
5. She avoids conflict.
Aquarians have a keen sense of fairness and respect the right of others to speak up. She will seldom defend her own opinion as “right” unless she gives equal weight to your point of view. She has no patience for inconvenience and feels uncomfortable with confrontations. In their practical and fair mind, both are unnecessary (and uncivilized).
Are you upset about something? Just talk about the topic sensibly and she will listen and do whatever she can to please you (as long as it doesn’t affect her sense of personal integrity). But if you try to dominate her, raise your voice, or curse her disrespectfully, you’re gone.
Nasty, talkative and petty natures are repugnant to Aquarians. They are selfish thoughts that only think of themselves. If you treat your Aquarius as she finds it “unfair”, you will lose her trust and respect forever.
6. She is wild and independent.
Uranus as one of the two ruling planets of this zodiac sign (the other is Saturn) ensures that your Aquarian woman is very independent. She has to be true to herself, just as the rest of us need oxygen to breathe.
In a relationship as well as at work, she wants to drop out as soon as she feels unappreciated, suppressed or controlled. Yeah, she knows she’s quirky. And she knows that she needs an unusually large amount of personal space. But nothing scares her more than being robbed of her freedom and autonomy. So if you want her to lean more against you, hold back!
If you ask little of an Aquarian woman, she will be happy to give you everything. But if you ask anything of her, she won’t give you anything and then quickly fly away.
7. It is constantly changing.
“Evolve or Die” is a phrase that makes perfect sense to the progressive Aquarian woman. Expanding your mind, making the world a better place, and growing as a person is a constant, never-ending process for you. And that’s probably what she expects from you too.
She will never tell you HOW to change, but she expects you to constantly develop as a person. As you get used to your habits, or worse, your way of thinking, it will lose interest.
Apart from that, it makes all of these changes inconsistent. She puts all her energy and enthusiasm into a relationship or a business idea, only to stumble upon a new idea that sends her on a completely different path. Trying to keep up with it is often frustrating. And if you want her to stay the same woman you found 10 years ago – forget it. Under no circumstance.
Kind, funny, smart, rebellious (often just like that) – a life in which you love an Aquarian woman is never boring. She longs for a strong, self-confident man who should keep up with her beautiful thoughts and stand up for his ideals, but also has the heart and passion to help her open up emotionally. If you are this man, you can expect a whole new world of love to be revealed to you.
Love for an AQUARIUS may seem like a journey at times, but once they open up to you, you will see how lucky you can be with them. Their intelligence, sense of humor, and rebellious nature make them a force to be reckoned with and every moment you are with them you will admire them more and more.