Although on the outside we strive to convey that image of strong, tough and invincible people, in reality things also hurt us. No matter how strong we want to appear, we all have our hearts that are affected by certain problems … And yes, it is difficult for us to admit it out of fear, because we do not harm others or simply because we do not want to see ourselves in that situation. Here’s what the signs hurt but will never be able to admit:
What hurts you the most, Aries, is that people assume or assume that you are a very self-centered person. It bothers you that people think you only care about yourself. It is not like that and the people who know you well know it. You hate that they think they know everything about you when they only know a small part, they only know what YOU let them know. They can say what they want about you, they can criticize your flaws… But having them talk and make up about your character is something that bothers you and also hurts you.
What hurts you the most, Taurus, is being the second course or the second option. It bothers you that they have you there in reserve. You have no problem with your friends or your partner dating other people. In fact, you will be happy for them and even encourage them to have fun with it. But you don’t like at all that they always have you as a second option. That they only call you when they need something. Or that they only come to you when no one else pays attention to them. That’s what hurts you the most, especially when it comes from people you thought you could trust …
For you, Gemini, what hurts the most is criticism, basically. Being told and repeated that you have done something wrong. It is very difficult for you to admit that you have failed or that you have been wrong, but once you know that you are not right, you do not mind accepting it. But do not repeat it, do not judge you for it, because it really bothers you. And what most appeals to you is that these people go on the lists giving a lesson that they would have done it differently or that how you should have done it so that you turned out well. This is something you will never admit.
What hurts your heart the most, Cancer, is rejection. Not only when it comes to sentimental issues. It bothers and hurts you that people cancel your plans, that they leave you standing, that they ignore you, that someone forgets to go on a date with you. They don’t realize it, but with those little details they are breaking your heart and playing with your feelings. You are delicate, sensitive and what may seem silly to others, affects you more than you think. And no, you won’t admit it because you don’t want to show others that you are so vulnerable.
Comparisons are hateful, Leo, and that’s why they hurt you so much. Not only does it bother you, but it also hurts you to be compared to others. You are someone unique and you do not like to be tried to make defects that other people do not have. Each one is as it is and you do not understand the need they have to compare. It hurts your heart to feel like it has a competition to beat. You don’t like feeling like you have to be constantly competing with others, no matter how competitive you are at times. And this is something that you will never admit, because people will think that you are weaker than you seem.
What hurts you, Virgo, is that people walk away and do not give any explanation. That person stop talking to you without explaining why. You don’t understand what need they have to make someone else suffer. Look that you are not a very sentimental person, but honest and sincere you are always. And yes, you know that sometimes your words can hurt and that the truth is not always welcome. But you prefer that, you prefer to have your heart broken by being honest rather than giving you any kind of explanation. You don’t understand that trend of stopping responding to messages like that just because… It doesn’t hurt to be ignored, it hurts that they leave without saying goodbye.
What hurts you the most, Libra, is feeling invisible. Feeling that nobody listens to you, that they ignore you, that they ignore you. That they do not appreciate your heart as it really deserves. Loneliness doesn’t hurt you, what’s more, you enjoy it. But what hurts you is feeling lonely when you are apparently surrounded by a lot of people. You need to be heard, Libra, you need to feel that there is someone there for whom you do not go unnoticed. You don’t need everyone to shut up to hear you speak, just having one person helps you. And you will never recognize it because you think that others will think that you are claiming their attention, and in reality, it is not like that …
What hurts you the most, Scorpio, is that they ignore your opinion. Feeling that you have neither voice nor vote even in your own decisions. That no one cares what you say or that your thoughts do not matter to anyone. That you don’t have enough power to make them listen to you the way you want them to listen to you. And no, you won’t admit it because you are too proud for it. Because you do not want others to discover that vulnerable side that is behind that hard shell that you are so obsessed with showing others. You are not looking for attention, you are looking for your voice and your words to have the power they deserve.
What hurts you the most, Sagittarius, is that people don’t treat you politely. Don’t be thanked for everything you do. That they do not appreciate everything you do for others. Look, you don’t care what others do, but at least they are grateful. That people appreciate your work, your effort, your time. You only ask for that. And when you don’t get those thanks, it hurts. Well of course it hurts. It bothers you to waste your time on people who have no education and who do not know how to value others. It hurts because since you are not like that, you do not understand what leads others to be so rude and act with so little empathy …
With you it’s easy, Capricorn. What hurts you the most is failure. Not reaching the goal, not being able to make your dreams come true, you don’t know how to measure up. Make a mistake and have everything you do wrong repeated over and over again. Lose and throw all your time in the trash. And it hurts so much that you punish yourself for not knowing how to do things right. It bothers you because you know that you are capable of doing everything you set your mind to. And when you don’t get it, it’s because you haven’t done things right. It hurts to have to admit that you fail too sometimes.
As much as you want to say no, Aquarius, it hurts you to be criticized for being different. You do not care what they think or if they look at you badly for having your hobbies. But it hurts you that people believe in the power to criticize all your actions. It hurts you that they make fun of you, what you do and what you don’t do. You’ve already reached a point where you seem immune to that kind of criticism, but as soon as you get home, you realize that it still hurts. It is not that you do not like criticism, it is more, there are times that you can even understand them. What you do not understand is that behind that criticism there is evil, envy and no respect.
What hurts you, Pisces, is that they ignore, that they leave you in ‘read’, that they do not listen to you. After all, you are a person who needs contact, you need to relate to others to feel alive. And when you don’t get any kind of attention from the other party, it hurts. You are sensitive, Pisces, and it seems incredible that people do not know that your heart beats at a different rate and feels differently. You don’t like loneliness at all and that’s why as soon as you see a trace of it, you start to worry. And no, you will never admit it because that would be showing others that you are too sensitive.