These 9 behaviors show that he doesn’t want to be with you
If a man is really in love with you, then he will send you certain signals. For example, he calls you very often or seeks you around. Some men also show their interest by giving you small gifts.
These signals are certainly not there if the man only sees you as a friend. If he doesn’t want to be with you, then the guy will show certain behavior patterns. If you are currently dating someone and are unsure whether they are looking for something serious or just viewing you as a love adventure, then you should look out for the following signs:
The first time he answers and then again for a long time
One day he texts you continuously and almost bombards you with messages and the next day, nothing. Although you may text each other a few times a week and there may be occasional phone calls, his communication isn’t exactly consistent. You just never know if you will receive a message today or if he will respond to each of your messages.
His irregular communication is not only an indicator of his unreliability, but it may also be a sign that he is sending messages to other women that he finds interesting as well. All of this shows that he’s not interested in a relationship with you.
2. He cancels your meetings or dates
If he cancels your plans at the last minute or even lets you down, then he doesn’t care enough about you to respect your time and energy. If this is what he’s doing now, imagine what this guy will look like as a husband or a father. He’s not right for you! A man who cares about you wants to build the relationship, and communication and respect are an essential part of that. A man who keeps canceling plans with you doesn’t respect you.
3. He says he misses you but doesn’t do anything to see you
Some people know exactly what to say to keep things going and this is a perfect example of that. If he says he misses you but makes no attempts to see you, that’s total nonsense. Don’t fall for it or believe his empty words. If he really meant it, he would do anything to hang out with you.
4. He won’t make long-term plans with you
If you really like a man, you may be desperate to make long-term plans with him. For example, you could invite him to your friend’s wedding a few months in advance, buy concert tickets in advance, and set a date for a trip together. But if a man doesn’t want to have a relationship with you, he is unlikely to embark on long-term plans in the future. Instead of being excited about being with you in the future, he hesitates and can’t give you a definitive yes. And if a man doesn’t want to think about your future together, he should be history to you.
5. Besides love, you hardly spend any time together
Romance is certainly part of a healthy relationship, but it shouldn’t be the largest part of it. Think about the last five times you’ve seen each other. Did he write late at night to come over? It’s okay from time to time, but a man who wants a relationship with you will want to spend time with you outside of the bedroom. You are more than your body. If he’s not interested in figuring out what’s going on in your head, he’s not worth your time.
6. He doesn’t want to define the relationship
If you’ve been dating a guy for a while and he still refuses to define the relationship, this is not a good sign. A man who means business wants to claim you as his partner and give you the title of “girlfriend”. This is definitely one of the clearest signs that he might like you but doesn’t want a relationship with you.
7. He doesn’t introduce you to his friends or family members
If a man is serious about having a woman by his side, he will slowly but surely introduce her to his friends and family. The official “introduction” is a major milestone for men, and they take great pride in showing their wives to their friends or introducing them to their parents. If you’ve been dating for a few months and he hasn’t introduced you to anyone he cares about, this is a big sign that he’s not really ready to include you in his life in a legitimate way.
8. He mostly talks about himself and doesn’t seem to want to know anything about you
Some men love to text messages or they call and talk on the phone for hours. Yet they never get around to asking you. This is usually a sign that a man wants attention and perhaps emotional support from you, but doesn’t want the responsibilities that come from a real relationship. He will take what he can get from you but never give you what you need.
9. It is sometimes very unwelcoming
Maybe he says he likes you and you are the ones for him, but is totally dismissive at times. Or maybe he doesn’t say anything except that he’s too busy to see you. He can’t make plans right now because of his job, boss, family, etc. But if he keeps blocking you, that is a sign that he doesn’t want to have a relationship with you.