8 things men do when they have no interest in conquering you
Many women come across this type of man. The man who doesn’t notice and appreciate you for who you are. The man who makes you feel like you’re not interesting.
He doesn’t make an effort and doesn’t pay enough attention to you?
Then you should be honest with yourself and listen to your heart. Because women actually know instinctively when a man is really interested and when not. Sometimes, however, they are somewhat foggy due to their feelings and tolerate behavior that will pull them down in the long run.
That’s why I want to explain the 8 most important things a man does when he is not interested in conquering you. And here they are:
1. THE SUGGESTIONS TO DO SOMETHING TOGETHER COME EXCLUSIVELY FROM YOU.
This is clearly a warning sign. A man who is really interested in you should also suggest a meeting and actively work to conquer you with dates. As a woman, you should just sit back and let him do the work.
If the suggestions for a date come only from you, then this is a clear indication that he is not serious about you. You like it, but you don’t like it. It’s that simple. Stop giving him endless opportunities and hope in vain that he will take the initiative at some point. He doesn’t deserve your attention if he doesn’t even get a meeting.
2. HE ONLY REPORTS WHEN THERE IS A PROSPECT OF S*X
Some men send you messages late at night or on a Saturday night at the weekend. If he only does this at these times, you can assume that he only wants s*x. He certainly doesn’t want to talk to you about your future together at this time.
This behavior could also indicate that he has a friend next to you with whom he does things during the day. Or he had a date with another woman who didn’t want to go home with him. Do you just want to be his distraction? Of course not! Then don’t be treated like this!
3. YOU DON’T KNOW ANYONE FROM THEIR FAMILY OR FRIENDS
Maybe you’ve been with this guy before and you happened to meet a friend of his. However, this friend didn’t know who you were.
This means that he doesn’t tell you anything. Why does he want to keep you secret? If he plans a future with you, he would be happy to tell you about you. All of his friends knew about you long ago. But he doesn’t even bother to introduce you to them. His family members don’t know you either, although you two have known each other for a long time. This is also a sign that he is not serious about you.
4. HE NEVER TAKES YOU OUT.
A man who wants to conquer you will try to arrange a meeting and would like to take you out. He would want to invite you to dinner and would not hesitate to pay the bill in the end. He doesn’t have to brag about money at all, but your partner should at least try to make a little effort for you. It doesn’t have to be expensive. But he should be trying a bit.
If he invites you to dinner and expects you to pay half the bill, you can be sure that he’s not interested in a relationship.
5. HE DOESN’T BOTHER ABOUT HIS APPEARANCE WHEN YOU MEET.
Another indication that he has no interest in conquering you is that he will not bother about his appearance when you meet. He doesn’t shave and doesn’t bother about his outfit? Then you can assume that he is not trying to dress up for you.
After all, you also make yourself chic for him, apply lipstick or make your hair for the meeting. Then he can go out of his way and at least put on something decent. Even if he looks pretty cute in his sweatpants – don’t let that fool you.
6. THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN YOU MAKES YOU DOUBT AND THINK A LOT.
Do you already have the feeling that something doesn’t fit? All the time you doubt whether he is right for you? Then you should listen to your gut feeling. Because often this is a sign that you cannot feel his infatuation. And that’s because his infatuation is not there.
It means that he doesn’t feel anything for you. That’s why he won’t try to conquer you. So you should consider whether you are satisfied with it.
7. YOUR FEELING TELLS YOU THAT HE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU.
You may even feel that he is not interested in you. He never asks about your hobbies, doesn’t want to know anything about your friends or family and hardly cares about how you are or what your everyday life looks like.
Maybe he tells a lot about himself and unloads all his garbage from you. But he does not think for a second to ask how your day was. When you talk about yourself, he hardly listens to you and doesn’t respond to you at all. Do you have the feeling that everything is always about him? Then you should trust your feeling. He is not interested in you.
8. YOU FEEL THAT YOUR SELF-ESTEEM IS SINKING.
The worst thing that can happen to you with this whole thing is that you lose your self-esteem. Because this man pulls you under his spell so much that you give yourself up and feel bad because he makes you feel like you’re not good enough.
I tell you something: you are good enough! He just doesn’t see it. And this situation is killing you. This relationship is toxic to you and you should leave it.
If you have a man in your life who is not interested in you, then you should delete him from your life. You deserve something better.