How do you know if a man is flirting with you and not just being polite? Well, if you look a little closer, you’ll see pretty obvious signs that he’s flirting with you and being romantically interested in you.
You don’t really know what this guy is about.
Is he just being polite?
What’s wrong with him?
Today I am giving you signs that he is flirting with you that you can watch out for.
Sometimes men are hard to see through, right?
How do you know if he’s really in love with you or not?
It can really be a confusing thing. You don’t want to lean too far out the window when the guy is just trying to be polite to you.
Here are 8 signs he’s flirting with you and not just being nice
1. Flirty touch.
The first sign that he is flirting with you is to look for the flirty touch.
Guys can’t help it. We need to reach out and touch a woman when we feel that attraction for her.
When he sees a woman he really likes, he just won’t be able to resist. It’s one of the things we compulsively do. It’s one of the things that we just have on the back of our minds that we need to do.
I think that’s because a lot of guys, unfortunately, don’t get physical affection. Guys don’t get the same kind of hugs, kisses, caresses, and touches that many women do.
2. His smile lingers.
He’ll smile at you out of politeness, but will that smile stay on his face when he picks you up?
Probably not so much.
So, if he’s smiling at you and looking for more reasons to smile at you, that is a very good sign that he’s flirting with you. If he really likes it and enjoys being with you, then he will make more effort to laugh with you and share his smile with you.
3. He’s excited about finding things you have in common.
The third sign he’s flirting with you is that he’s excited to find things the two of you have in common. That’s a really big sign.
He’ll make an effort to emphasize the things you have in common – whether it’s interests, music, movies, or whatever.
If a guy really likes you, he will be on the lookout for similarities because it’s an easy way for him to connect with you.
4. He makes jokes and innuendos.
This point is actually a matter of course. Guys tend to joke a little too much about love.
You – as a woman – have to read between the lines to understand that. He’s not trying to be just a loser or a sucker or something like that.
He’s really trying to find out if the love card is on the table. He wants to find out how you feel about the idea of love.
Then you can bet that if he tries to find out, he’s probably flirting with you. He’s just trying to get a feel – not to find out if you’re going to make out with him this minute or even that night – but if it’s a possibility. For him, this is the way he works out whether or not you are physically attracted to him.
Many women back down on this issue and you have to be careful.
Instead of getting rid of it, just laugh at it and move the topic to another topic. And yes, he’ll come back to it and you’ll even want to roll your eyes, but just let it be.
Most guys do, and some are just clueless. A lot of guys with really good hearts do this and they just don’t realize how annoying it can be for you.
5. He playfully teases you .
Teasing is a nice sign that he’s flirting with you. This is your schoolyard behavior like from the textbook, where you give Mary a name because she has red hair, but actually only because you like her and you have no other way of opening a conversation with her.
You know what? Guys don’t grow out of this behavior.
If a guy is teasing you about something, the chances are he’s flirting and into you in some way because he’s looking for a way to rekindle the connection and interaction by taking them to new levels of energy.
That’s really what he does with the tease. He’s not trying to just get on your nerves and give you a hard time.
He wants to increase the excitement and interest in the conversation. But of course he’ll hide his interest in you by pretending you’re just an annoying, bitchy little sister of his.
That’s fine. You know better now.
6. You catch him staring at you.
The next sign he’s flirting is that you catch him staring at you. If that sign he’s flirting isn’t obvious then I don’t know what it is.
How do you know if he just happened to catch your gaze or if he happened to fix your gaze?
If you catch him looking at you from across the room, or even while you are sitting right next to him, he’s probably having a crush. He is likely looking at you or trying to sneak peek at you to get hold of you.
Guys take on women visually.
You’ve heard so many times that men are visual. It’s not that easy just looking at your breasts and butt. It will take in your face and your appearance as a whole. It is a thirst that men get when we find a woman to whom we are attracted.
7. He told his friends about you.
If a man mentions a woman in a conversation for any reason, it’s likely because he’s basically thinking about asking her out on a date.
He wouldn’t remember you if he wasn’t interested in some way. When you walk up to him and his friends and his friends say:
“Oh, I heard from you.”
“He talked about you.”
“He said something about you.”
“He mentioned to you.”
Anything like that means that he likes you.
And, a bonus sign he’s flirting with you:
8. He’s trying to get your phone number somehow.
The next sign he’s flirting with you is when he asks you or tries in some way to get your phone number from you.
Getting your phone number is a killer indicator that he is interested in you because he would never do that unless he was romantically interested in you in some way.
Men just don’t do that. We probably won’t get your phone number just to hang out with you.
Occasionally we will, but most of the time, whatever his excuse, he’s trying to sneak past your radar and get back in touch with you.
That’s what he’s trying to do by getting your number. Find a way to get back in touch with yourself. The key to this is to be very cool to him. Don’t shoot him too hard if you find out he’s flirting with you and you aren’t interested.
If you are interested in him then, of course, take the ball and run with him. If you’re still struggling to figure out whether he likes you or not, then you need to know what signals guys are sending out as signals.
Guys give very clear signs of their interest in you, you just need to know how to read them. Of course, you have to be careful.
Let me show you how to read his signals.
I’ll show you the exact ways you can spot the little signals men are sending out that tell you if he’s really into you or just wasting your time.