When we start a new relationship, we usually encounter a series of obstacles that must be overcome together, there may even be crises that not everyone has the same. It is often said that when there is love there is a solution for everything, a perfect couple is one that builds a relationship of respect and trust. What happens is that not all of us are equal and each one of us usually makes many mistakes throughout our relationships.
Here we show you what is the mistake that we stumble upon again and again, according to our zodiac sign.
Aries, the main problem you face in all relationships is that you may not be able to work too hard on them. Aries, you must keep in mind that relationships cannot flourish on their own and that they all require time and effort at both ends for everything to work perfectly.
Your partner will not be able to maintain the relationship alone, and more if you are not willing to contribute. If all this happens to you because you have not overcome your old relationship, it is better to break up and let the other person make their lives, because Aries, if you want this to work in the future, the first thing you have to do is overcome your past and above all this mistake that you can’t stop making, not working too hard on relationships.
In order to combat this change, what you have to do is fight to change the way things are going, but since this is going to take a while, let your partner know how much you really appreciate it and how much you want the best for the relationship All you need is time to show all that love you have inside, and it is then when everything will turn into something magical.
Taurus, the biggest mistake you make in your relationships is sharing too much, I explain, you always feel the need to express yourself completely with your partner, but sometimes there is that sharing more account information can lead to your partner wanting to get away and This is the last thing you want, but it is that very few understand that your partner is with the only person you feel really comfortable to express yourself.
You know that on the one hand for a relationship to work, complete honesty is the key. But it is not necessary to share information that the only thing you are going to do is to make your partner worry more, you really just want her to know that you trust her, but Taurus, believe me, there is sometimes that it is better to keep quiet.
Although you are only trying to create a basis of trust in the relationship, this is not what your partner sees, so to give a solution to all this, what you have to do is try to be a little more selective with the information you share. This will lead your partner to merge with you instead of pulling her away.
Gemini, the biggest mistake you make is to pretend everything is fine. You have an attitude of the most positive of the signs, you are able to see the good of each situation and you will always want the best for this life, but just as you see everything positive, you also have that ability to see all the negative of Every situation The bad, that you always end up ignoring him, and Gemini, this is sometimes not right.
It is time to wake up and discover everything that is causing your relationship to fail, if you do not completely solve these problems, you can never turn the relationship into something unique and special. All this can be complicated, but it is time to find everything that is holding you back, and Gemini, you are an expert in finding out everything that happens.
Gemini, you can’t keep pretending that everything is going on wheels, to solve this, make a list of all the problems you need to face, little by little you will realize how easy it is to do things one by one when you finally stop ignoring them. Finally, you can face your problems in front of you instead of living in fear, this will make your relationship one of those that everyone envies.
Cancer the biggest mistake you make in relationships is giving up too quickly. You will be the first to admit that when things are not going too well, you are ready to throw in the towel, instead of struggling to solve things you prefer to start thinking about what is to come, that “it sure is better”.
Your point of view is understandable by everyone, but you also have to know that nobody will be willing to be with a person who at the first exchange takes a long time, rather people want a person to fight for the relationship. Everyone understands that you can stress yourself, but you must trust your partner if you work together everything will be fine.
Cancer, we know that the last thing you want is to give up your relationship, so you should try to be a little more open with your partner about how you feel because this way things will improve. You should not run away when things get ugly, rather you have to rely on that person so special to you, but Cancer, first of all, make sure you are the right person.
Leo, even if you don’t believe it, your biggest mistake in relationships is wanting to change people, I explain, you have incredibly high life expectations as to what you really want. Therefore, when you find someone who is not willing to make any major changes in life, you feel the need to motivate him to be the best version of himself.
But Leo, there is a big difference between motivating someone and trying to change it. Although you don’t realize it, many times you fall into the huge mistake of pressing your partner to change instead of supporting him, you are actually pushing for that person to change completely and stop being the person he really is. If you think you can be with someone you have basically built, you are very wrong Leo, because, in the end, you will think that he does not have any personality.
I read this error can be solved and it is that for a couple to work you have to let the other person be the same and hope you can love him for that same reason because his true personality conquers you. Leo, you have to love your partner for what she really is, instead of trying to make her the person you think she should be.
Virgo, the mania you have of not being able to think about the future and being stuck in the past is your biggest mistake regarding love relationships. Virgo is time to start living the present and look forward because your partner will not be waiting while you discover what you cannot overcome.
If you cannot leave the past behind, you simply must not be in a relationship. They may have hurt you a lot, but that is past, we know you cannot forgive, but you must leave all that behind to be able to move forward, at least try to forget it, surprising things are waiting for you in the present and the future. If there is one thing you have to do, it is to be clean with what you really feel, so your partner can understand you 100%.
Virgo, to solve this, you must take some time for yourself, to find out exactly what is happening inside you, if you do not heal the past, the present will be infected by all those darts full of poison. Your partner will understand, but do not abuse that time either because, Virgo we all have our lives and we are not constantly bitter about our past, we simply learn to live with it, and your partner can end up getting tired.
Libra, the biggest mistake you make is that you have to have control in the relationship if or if. They have taken great advantage of you in the past and you are not willing to relive that again, due to all that damage they have done you will not let it be your partner who controls you, rather, you will be the one who controls all situations.
Instead of having power and control over your partner, Libra, what you have to try is to create a balance of power in the relationship. In a couple no one should seek to have the advantage over the other, this can be many things, but love, it is not that there is much.
Libra, by nature the human being wants to have control, but it is not the healthiest. It is very good not to want them to take advantage of you, but this should not be at the cost of taking advantage of your partner. Try to find a balance where they can both say, it can be very difficult to give up power, but you will see how your relationship grows once you do.
Scorpio, you are known for being quite independent, this means that you don’t trust your family or friends too much and this makes you look for stability and full confidence in your romantic relationships. Scorpio, it is very good that you want stability, but because of this, you are willing to do what is necessary so that the relationship does not break and you stay together.
And Scorpio is where you make the biggest mistake in almost all your relationships, you become a person quite dependent on your partner, which causes many to question that stability you were looking for. What you have to do instead of forcing yourself to be there for your partner is to try to take care of yourself.
Scorpio to solve this problem, what you have to do is find that stability that you want so much, but find it in yourself, nobody assures you that it will be there with you to take care of you when things get difficult, so you must be prepared to take care of your alone. Once you find this inner stability you will begin to enjoy your partner, because Scorpio, nobody wants to be with someone who uses it as a lifeguard.
Sagittarius the biggest mistake you make in all relationships is to keep your things hidden, you don’t have to be an open book, but the key in a relationship is trust and that is what you lack. Sagi if what you want is to push your relationship to chaos, keeping secrets is the perfect way to do it.
You try to be as honest as possible, but it is impossible for you. You constantly cling to small details because you know that they are really destroying a relationship, so you keep secrets, unconsciously, because you feel that where you have to focus is on that, on the little things that life gives us, those little things are what keeps the flame of a relationship. Of course, Sagi, you have to find out why you are not willing to be totally honest with your partner, maybe it is not your problem.
If you want your relationship to work, little by little you will have to open up to your partner, even if it costs you, it is possible that it will cost you because you have suffered from other similar experiences, but not everyone is the same, and you have to leave the past behind, live Present with your partner, because the back can no longer be changed.
Capricorn, the problem you have is that sometimes you are too problematic and do not stop complaining about everything when you are constantly causing dramas, your partner will not be very excited about it, rather he will want to run away.
Sometimes you are aware of this problem, and you want to change your ways as soon as possible, since you know that nobody would want to be with a person who is 24 hours a day complaining, what a person wants by his side is someone who lives the life in a more relaxed way, without complaining even about breathing. Capri, it may be time to make a change in your life, maybe breathe and count to 10 before opening your mouth.
But calm Capricorn because there is a trick to solve this problem that brings you along the path of bitterness, the trick is to try to find out what pushes you to create a drama and most likely to come because you want to get attention of your partner, but Capri, this is something toxic for the couple, complaining is not the best way to get attention, try to be more affectionate, this will make your partner stay by your side instead of walking away.
Aquarius if there is a mistake you make, again and again, it is to manipulate the truth as you wish. He is used to doing what you want, so you are not willing to put yourself in a situation that does not suit you. However, you will not hesitate to do whatever it takes to make you feel like it and if the only way is to manipulate the truth, you will have no qualms about manipulating it.
Your inability to tell the truth as it is makes your love relationships not work as they should if there is a problem and you know that problem has been your fault it will not matter because you will not stop complaining and blaming your partner. Aquarius, it’s time to stop manipulating the truth for the sake of your relationship and above all, your mental health, because in the end, you end up believing those truths that really don’t really have anything.
Aquarius, to solve this problem, instead of looking guilty and inventing truths, what you have to do is start working hard to find a solution to all those conflicts with your partner. Only then will you be able to see how the world begins to open for you in all the ways you want.
Pisces, your biggest mistake is that you don’t stop waiting for perfection. You cannot pressure your partner to act like a completely different person, mainly because they probably have different expectations of what is perfect and what is not.
You are quite wrong and do not realize, instead of accepting your partner as it is, do not stop trying to become the ideal partner you have in your head, you do not realize, but you are Pisces, but you must know that your partner can never become that person you want, the perfect person, because in this world perfection does not exist.
Pisces, to solve this problem, you have to let each person be as he is and start accepting it. The only person who can really change to fit your ideals of perfection, you are yourself. If you want the relationship to work, you must soften those ideals, sip perfection, and Pisces, be clear that no one will be willing to change to adapt to your ideals and tense when you are not willing to change yourself.