When we are happy each sign we express that joy in a way, and we ask in return that they share it, that they understand us, that they join in our good vibes … But and when are we angry? How do we pay for our anger with others? How do we handle that anger? How do YOU resolve your anger in your relationships? Well, depending on your sign, there are twelve ways to do it. Get to know them.
Anger loses you, Aries, so it’s easy to imagine that the first thing you manifest when you get angry is that anger. And you do it with the vein in your neck throbbing, spitting out very harsh words through your mouth and with some signature tap of the house: slapping the table hard or coming out like a thrombus with the door slammed. All this, if it happens with your partner (or with family or friends) will be more intense because where there is trust is disgusting. And your partner, even if they already know you, will always be surprised to see how you turn on the first time, with so little control on your part. As you get older I’m sure you will control these attacks more and more, but until that happens, you are very hard when you get angry, and you attack whoever has angered you without thinking about anything, without reasoning, without measuring consequences. The good news is that your partner will know that you are over soon and that with the right approach (not too soon, not taking too long) you will calm down, you will regret it and you will apologize. But for all that it will help a lot that he has given you the reason too, let’s not fool ourselves.
Taurus, you get angry from time to time but when you do, those who suffer from it remember it every day for a long time. Because of even the universe trembles with your anger. When it is with your partner, as feelings count a lot for you, the anger will be a mixture of anger but also of sorrow for feeling moved towards that situation. Because you did not want it, you do not seek to remove yourself and when they lead you to it, you get doubly mad. Since you are slow-moving, you will not be the type to run out and slam the door, but you can feel relief when you hit something. Or imagining some kind of revenge. In some cases, you may even cry, because of helplessness in the face of such annoyance, and because you feel angry when your partner hurts you. For you, it is almost a small betrayal because you always try not to mess with her, or make her angry. So yes, you experience your anger as a great injustice, right?
Gemini, when you get angry in your relationships, the first thing you need is space to get away from who has made you angry. Of course, before putting distance, you release what is not written through your mouth. And with ease, you have to mix words, with deeds, with past matters, with irony and sharpness … the result is a direct torrent of reproaches and bad temper towards your partner (or a friend or family member) that can knock you out at the first moment. And then it will be even worse when he calms down and remembers well everything that you have spit out of your mouth. When you calm down, and for that, you have to spend a little time (a few hours or a day at least) you return to being that cheerful person as always, although you also spend some hint to warn that you have not forgotten the whole thing.
Get angry? You know this topic well, right Cancer? In your loving nature, there is a dark side that always has you ready for anger, to annoy you, to get angry, and reasons are never lacking. And if you lack them, you look for them, because you are quite good at finding the confrontation to let out your most negative emotions. When you are already angry, your partner will know (and if not that he will find out) that what comes next is a desperate passive-aggressive attitude. When you get angry, the truth is that you prefer not to talk much, not say what is wrong with you, not give clues about what you think … you prefer to act, punish, isolate yourself, far or near but without opening your mouth. Let him suffer, you think. In your anger, you want to manifest your revenge, your punishment … this is how you resolve your anger in your relationships, Cancer, all at once. Leaving tracks of anger not making clear why, isolating yourself, and wanting to come back to make up. And while he thinks better of it for another time.
Anger, Leo, puts you in a situation that, because of how little you like it, leads you to act doubly bad. Come on, more than solving, you force the matter a lot and at times you make it worse. Let’s go by parts, as you do not like to get angry, you need to punish your partner (or that friend or relative who has touched your nose) so that he knows the big mistake he has made. Your ego presses you to be above. You will feel terrible but that is why you need the other person to feel bad too, worse rather. Because according to you, he has a lot of faults, that’s how you see it. That thought of not believing you have any (or minimal) guilt leads you to be too harsh with that person who has made you angry. And from there then you give a howl, or you spend an attitude of don’t touch me, don’t talk to me, don’t look at me. And want to fix it but without giving in at any time.
Virgo, when you get angry with your partner, with a friend, or with someone in the family, you do not have the need to let go, or to be noticed, or to talk about it. Because you know that will mean giving more thought to the subject. And since you give it a lot of laps on your own, you prefer to save yourself from lengthening the story more and having it become an endless tale. Of course, when you have processed it in your head (well process it more or less, because with your sense of perfection you will never be completely satisfied), then you will want to talk about it. Do not look for you until then because you will get even angrier. Your anger, your anger, everything that bothers you, you like to swallow it yourself and think about how to solve it. You don’t trust others to fix anything before you see it clearly. Then once processed,
Libra, when you get angry you are one of those who let it be noticed but not much. Your partner or that relative notices something in you, something that tells them that you are upset, but they do not know for sure because you do not say so. To speak it you have to be more sure of explaining well what is happening to you. Actually what you want is to be guessed, without having to expose yourself too much. You don’t want to say it yourself, you want the other person to help you, taking it out, talking about it, helping you fix it by doing something. You will help him, of course, you will make it easy for him that he does not imagine it. But these issues are dirty work, and you don’t like dirty work. This is how you resolve your anger in your relationships. Deep down, what you like is that all your emotions are shared, the good and the bad. You don’t want them for yourself, you don’t know how to solve them, you need others for that. Just like you need them to give you the best that is in you.
Scorpio you get very angry, with everyone and even with yourself if necessary. But you are capable of not showing anything, except that your eyes (your soul) cannot hide the shine that anger gives you. Your anger is always brutal, but many are not the kind that goes out. They are almost always inward. Inward is where you want them to be in control, as you always do with everything in your life. And if that friend or your partner asks you if something is wrong with you, you could even swear on your life that no, that nothing is wrong with you. Actually, all parts of you are pure emotion, and anger is an emotion, of the negative ones, and you want to hide it, because hidden and controlled you feel that it maintains your strength, instead of showing it and showing your weak points. And you, Scorpio, what makes you feel stronger, deep down it also gives you a certain peace. You turn the anger around and control it to your advantage. Pure magic.
You are to get angry, fast, and just as fast it passes you. But you have the short fuse as a good sign of fire. That means that getting angry is easy for you, spouting through your mouth what has also angered you. You release it, make your position clear, and smile. Brutal honesty, as in almost everything you do in life. Sincere, direct, making everything clear and always. That easy. Except that perhaps this way of resolving your anger is still good for you, but not for your partner. Because it may not be so fair to her that the drip of your reasons falls and you barely let her say hers. By the time you’ve calmed down having released your anger, and allow yourself to listen to the other person, she may still be shaking, and not even the words come out. Measure your anger, measure your arguments,
Capricorn, you resolve your anger almost always the same: you shut it up. That to begin with. Information is power, power is control, and you like to have control. So you keep to yourself what you feel and think about what you will do with that whirlwind that is so upsetting you in your serene way of being. If anger is with friends, you control it better, but if it is with your partner or family, you make it worse, because it touches your heart (yes, it hurts, in some way) and also because those who know you make you angrier. That they put you in that position knowing how you are and how little you like to be failed, it seems like negligence that you want to punish. So you isolate yourself, you don’t want them to look at you or talk to you. The safest thing is that you will be able to not spout even the slightest word about the subject that has angered you. In any case, you get up, You leave and the door slamming may make the windowpanes shake. For another time, they think better of it.
Aquarius, if you get angry you do it with your head. No anger, knocks on the table, red face boiling with rage … Your thing is to get angry with your partner or friends but controlling, eating the anger inside, but with a lot of resentment. Which in the end translates into an internal bitterness that only affects you, because the other person does not even realize it (unless they are a very empathetic person and know you very well). So the small annoyances you solve them by yourself mentally. If anger is about something important and that interests you, you mature it and try to talk about it (which for you is always the best solution to resolve any emotion). And if anger is already a major mark, then yes you explode, but because you have kept trying to control it, and in the end, what is heated boils, what boils,
With you, it is difficult to know that you are angry because you are not one of those who clearly show it. Yours borders on subtlety, and you drop somehow that you are annoyed by this or that. And you trust the other person to magically guess what might have angered you. You get the romantic vein, that of a movie, in which the protagonists always know what the other wants, without speaking it, everything is ideal, everything flows and is lovingly resolved. But of course, the reality is different, and your partner (or whoever you are angry with), either rack their brains thinking what can happen to you, or it ends up happening to you. And that hurts, even more, you are stronger than you think, but you swallow a lot and it burns. It is difficult for you to say that you are bad Pisces, but that is your essence, that in which you do not want to steal time from others, you do not want to provoke them or ask for anything.