5 reasons why you should have someone born in Cancer in your life
Cancer is often considered to be very emotional and sometimes particularly stressful. These traits can put many people off.
But the truth is: We all need a Cancer person in our life. Here are 5 reasons that speak for it:
1. They are compassionate leaders
Although Cancers may seem passive, they have excellent leadership skills. They use their intuitive, emotional nature to deeply understand people and situations, which gives them good insight into solving problems.
Cancer thinks with the heart rather than the head, and while this may seem like an unwise approach, its compassion takes him far in life.
He makes sure that all of your needs are met because he genuinely cares about the well-being of the others around him. He is is a deeply maternal, caring mark and uses his emotional acuity to care for people’s hearts.
This zodiac sign can work particularly well in professions such as consulting, gardening, political positions, artistic or musical professions, or in the field of nursing.
If you need an open ear, you can rely on this sign. Your cancer will drop whatever it does to help you because it is best at it. He lives to serve and help others up when they are down or when life brings them down. That’s why Cancer is one of the best zodiac signs to have as a friend.
Nobody can comfort others like a Cancer because they have a way about them that no one else has. He can see into people’s hearts and give wonderful advice. He will stand in front of you when you are in danger because he will stand up for you no matter what.
2. You are not afraid of deep emotions
Nobody knows emotions like a cancer. Cancers don’t shy away from others expressing their deep feelings on a subject. Ironically, they usually don’t show their emotions unless they really trust you.
So if they bare their souls, take it as a big compliment. Cancers would rather listen to others’ problems than share their own because they often feel so deeply that they find it difficult to put them into words.
However, because of their deep understanding of human existence, they are the best listeners and counselors. You can always rely on them to empathize with you and make sure that you are in good hands with them.
Cancers will encourage you to analyze your feelings and will never judge you for it because they’d rather bring it all on the table than suppress your emotions.
3. They listen and are attentive
Of all the zodiac signs, Cancer pays the most attention to details. Even if you think they are wandering around and they have lost interest, they will pick up the subtle hints and unspoken words.
Cancer is the sign that after a long week at work surprises you with your favorite dessert or simply gives you a gift because it memorized a detail of you and knew that you would like it. He loves to put a smile on people’s faces and he will take great care of you.
Cancers love to get to know people from the ground up, and because of their attentive nature, you will always feel loved and seen by them. They can’t stand seeing others upset and will cross oceans just to make you happy.
4. You are solid as a rock for those around you
Don’t underestimate the strength of cancer. Although there is a lot going on internally with them, they are unlikely to show it to the people who are close to them. They don’t like to be vulnerable, so most of the time they present their tough crab shell to the world.
Cancers are turbulent in nature, but appear calm on the surface. Always balanced and composed, they stand firm for themselves and the people who are close to their hearts.
Cancer doesn’t like to burden others with their problems, so try your best to resolve them internally and stay determined and strong. Their emotions fluctuate with the cycles of the moon, but they have an outward resolve that many of their friends admire. So your cancer will be solid as a rock for you.
5. They are friends for life
By now, you’ve probably found out that cancer is a very caring sign. He loves deeply and intensely, and he doesn’t bounce back and forth between people. Once he has a boyfriend, he has a friend for life. Cancers are best friends for a number of reasons.
For one thing, this sign is very slow in terms of trust. Cancer wants to fully understand people before entering into a friendship or relationship with them. But after he has finally let you into your heart, he holds you very close to you.
Cancers are good friends too because they truly value friendship. They believe that it is better to have a small group of loyal friends than a large group of hurtful or unfaithful friends. They value quality over quantity, and this can be seen in their mostly small groups of friends.
Some Cancers like to hang out with people and are very friendly to everyone, and that’s great in certain situations. But a Cancer’s rational and careful approach to friendship and love keeps them grounded and out of the reach of heartbreak.