While certain toxic habits are generally considered normal in a relationship, they can ultimately ruin your relationship. These toxic habits are a reflection of our personality and are difficult to give up. Recognizing and admitting your toxic habits can be a good icebreaker, however.
Believe it or not, it may have a little to do with your zodiac sign’s unhealthy habits. While each sign has a different personality, they also show different types of positive and negative habits in different people. Here we have summarized the toxic relationships of each zodiac sign for you so that you can better understand yourself (and your partner).
Here are the biggest toxic habits any zodiac sign have in a relationship.
1. Aries (March 21st to April 19th)
You are way too stubborn to be in a well-functioning relationship.
Aries can be damned stubborn when it comes to figuring out their true feelings. Somehow they think it’s better to keep your mouth shut about the problems they’re having in a relationship. Contrary to what they desperately hope for, nothing in life comes off by itself. If there are problems, these problems need to be discussed with the partner. It is wrong to expect your partner to miraculously understand when something is wrong and correct it.
2. Taurus (April 20th to May 20th)
You are very competitive and can be very materialistic at times when it comes to relationships.
Taurus cannot be competitive, even in a relationship. There is always a flashing display board projected in the back of the mind. Every nice gesture, every little thing that contributes to their happiness is noted on this display board. You shouldn’t even keep a book with your partner. There is no competition over who is the better person. You are both made for each other, don’t forget that.
3. twin (May 21 – June 21)
Oh, Gemini – you never keep your promises, and your partner never knows what to expect from you.
Geminis are a little too unpredictable to be taken seriously. They make sincere promises, but almost always fail to keep them. Even worse, they come up with so many excuses that the only person they can convince is themselves. For someone who is in a relationship with a Gemini, it can be a little tiresome to keep getting disappointed. At some point there comes a point where you are no longer able to trust the other person.
4. Cancer (June 22nd to July 22nd)
You tend to be overly emotional about everything and absolutely need to give your partner some space.
Cancer takes its relationship a little too seriously. You get attached to it way too quickly. It cannot be denied that they are very loving and caring, but sometimes their attachment becomes too limiting. You and your partner are both individuals. You are not meant to be inseparable. Give them room to breathe or you can lose them forever. Your relationship can be the stuff of legends, but it doesn’t have to be the only thing in your life.
5. Leo (July 23rd – August 22nd)
You are too fixated on yourself and unable to bend your will for anything or anyone, including your partner.
According to Leo, the best thing about the world is that it exists. You have this sense of superiority that is good for a leader but not so much for a partner. As a Leo, you may be used to being the one bossing everyone around. But that’s not a healthy attitude for a relationship where both partners need to be equal. Don’t think you know what’s best for them and don’t try to control their life. See them as equals and treat them that way.
6. Virgo (23 August to 22 September)
You’re extremely jealous, after all, if a magnifying glass is held at the wrong angle, it can actually cause serious damage.
Virgos have a hard time controlling their jealousy. You turn a mosquito into an elephant and that breaks the relationship. As a Virgo, you need to understand that you can’t question every step your partner takes just because you’re insecure. Rather, you should work with him and try to overcome your insecurities so that you can have a healthier relationship.
7. Libra (September 23rd-October 23rd)
You have to stop looking for problems everywhere and stop being overly the do-gooder in a relationship.
Scales are very good at dealing with problems. But that makes them prone to looking for problems where there aren’t any. What is even more problematic is that they take it upon themselves to “fix” their partners as well. Just because someone isn’t as organized and tidy as you are, doesn’t mean they need a lesson in planning and management. You have to let people be their own personalities. If you impose your own expectations on them, it won’t help anyone. And besides, you are not perfect yourself. Try to get inside yourself and work on yourself instead of making yourself over your partner.
8. Scorpio (October 24th – November 21st)
You can be so dominant that you hurt your partner’s feelings and push them further away from you.
Scorpios have zero tolerance when things don’t go as planned. Keeping up with a Scorpio’s expectations can be quite stressful. And the fact that they have a habit of blowing up on every little thing only makes things worse. You’re not with a machine. Your partner is human and inevitably has weaknesses. You have to be a lot more understanding and patient if you want your relationship to flourish.
9. Sagittarius (November 22nd – December 21st)
You have low self-esteem . Oh Sagittarius – it’s okay to be a little cautious so your partner knows where you stand.
Sagittarians bring themselves into misery without anyone else’s fault. You really have low self-esteem and should still play with it. They always feel like they are missing something and that makes them very negative about everything. Your partner doesn’t expect you to be perfect, but even they can’t be blamed for bringing so much negativity into the relationship. You have to learn your own self worth and stop putting yourself down. Only then are you truly worthy of your partner.
10. Capricorn (December 22nd – January 19th)
You are extraordinarily vigilant; the more you neglect your relationships in favor of other things, the more your relationship will suffer.
Capricorns have the ability to conquer the world all by themselves. They are so used to being their own boss that they sometimes forget that being in a relationship means being vulnerable and open in front of your partner. You don’t need to protect yourself from your partner. You have to trust him enough so that he can break through your walls and get to know the real you.
11. Aquarius (January 20-February 18)
You have to stand up for yourself more because a relationship isn’t all about your partner.
Aquarians have this thing that they won’t let them stand up for themselves. They think that they are the bigger person and allow whatever they want their partner to do, but in reality they are just a pushover. You don’t have to be okay with everything that makes you unhappy. It will only fester and cause disruption in the relationship. Learn to make your voice heard and make your concerns visible in the relationship. Trample on yourself is in no way the same as being loved.
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You have to stop looking for drama and romanticizing everything in a relationship.
Pisces are known for being creative and having a flair for drama. But sometimes when their needs for drama are not found, they go in search of them when there is none. This can lead them to invade their partner’s privacy. And that’s just the beginning of the many problems they can pose to themselves. You need to stop being guided by your thoughts and respect your partner’s privacy.