When you start a relationship, fears, and insecurities always arise. When you’re in love, not everything is pink as they say, not everything is perfect. There are also fears, there are also problems … Maybe your fear is to fail, to make everything go too fast, to get to trust too much. There is no need to worry, it is normal to have some fear when sharing your life with another person. Here is what your biggest fear is when you are in a relationship according to your sign:
The fear you have when you’re in a relationship, Aries, is to close your heart too soon. That is, you are afraid to leave behind the opportunities you might have if you were still single. That fear comes from yourself and not from your partner. You start thinking too much about what you might be living and you are not living. You think that by being in a relationship you are missing other things, other adventures. But no, Aries, you have to stop thinking like that.
Being in a relationship is a wonderful adventure in which you can live a lot of experiences.
Do not be afraid to ‘commit’. If your partner is a person who respects your freedom, you can continue to live the adventures that you want as long as you are faithful. Aries, you have to stop seeing a relationship as if it were a jail as if it were a place where you lock yourself up and stop being yourself.
A relationship is quite the opposite, it is that place where you can be yourself, where you can continue to grow and where you share everything that happens to you with another person.
Your greatest fear, Taurus, arises from your insecurity and your distrust. You are very afraid that your partner will be unfaithful to you and deceive you. You don’t want to go through something like that and that’s why sometimes it’s true that you’re a little jealous. More than jealous, you could say that you are overprotective. And it is that you, as much as you love that person, have a hard time getting to trust him 100%. There are even times that your fear reaches such a point that it makes you see things where there is nothing.
Taurus, you have to stop locking yourself up so much, for your sake and for the sake of your relationship.
Sometimes, when you’re so afraid, you don’t realize it, but you don’t look for others. You only look for yourself, to avoid having to suffer. Taurus, relax, if your partner really loves you, he will not be unfaithful. If your partner shows you that he trusts you, you should also trust him/her to the fullest. You don’t enjoy love as you should because of that damn fear. All because of your mistrust and all that that entails.
You are afraid that your relationship will become a monotonous and boring routine. You worry a lot about always doing special things with your partner, about making everything fun. You don’t want the flame to never go out, you’re afraid of getting used to that person so much that you end up abhorring it. You want your partner to also be your best friend, but you are very afraid Gemini.
You are terrified of falling into the damn routine.
But, Gemini, you have to start changing your perception. If your partner is really your soulmate, no matter how much time you spend, no matter how much you lived, the flame will continue the same as the first day. It’s okay to worry about doing different things and getting out of the routine, but it shouldn’t be a constant fear or concern.
There are times when you are so afraid that it leads you to commit nonsense and act in ways you later regret. The best advice you need in these situations, Gemini, is that you relax, let yourself go and be what it has to be. Do not push yourself more than the bill.
Your biggest fear when you’re in a relationship, Cancer, is not to be brave and good enough for your partner. You think that you are not enough for your partner, that you will not be at their height. Cancer, you have to love yourself much more, you have to trust yourself much more and everything you do. As soon as you start doing it, all those fears will go directly to the garbage container. You are also very afraid of being yourself since your partner does not like it.
You think if you show him how you really are, your partner will run away.
But it’s not like that, Cancer if your partner really loves you and trusts you, no matter how much he sees your dark side, he won’t run away. As we told you, Cancer, you have to rely a lot more on yourself. Do not be afraid to be who you are, leave behind all those insecurities that make you look like a weak and vulnerable person. You have to stop having those fears because without realizing it, they can also affect your partner and the problem can become much fatter …
You are very afraid that your partner can take advantage of your goodness and your great heart. You are afraid of becoming too confident because you think you are empowering the other person to break your dreams. The idea of getting too excited and stop being yourself terrifies you terribly. You could say that this is what scares you the most. You are a person with a lot of strength, but when you fall in love, your heart becomes soft and you are a much nicer person, much nobler.
You don’t want to change for anyone, but, Leo, think about it. Maybe you are not changing, you are simply maturing.
Change is not bad, moreover, it is necessary for everyone. Imagine how weird and how sad it would be to remain the same person throughout life. Falling in love is evolving, Leo is learning from the other person, sharing your life with your partner, maturing together. If you are afraid of something, be it not to be faithful to your people or your principles. Like, for example, neglecting yours or doing something you would never do for yourself. But don’t be afraid to evolve …
What you are afraid of when you fall in love and are in a relationship, Virgo, is to show your feelings. You are afraid to expose your heart too much and to become someone very vulnerable. Therefore, most of the time you strive to be a serious person who does not usually talk about his emotions. But, Virgo, it will be much easier for your partner to know what you are feeling. He will not be able to approach you if he does not know what is happening to you.
It is important that you trust your partner enough and that you open yourself, at least with her. Leave fears behind and trust your feelings.
As soon as you do, you will realize that your relationship works much better and that you yourself are much calmer and more relaxed. Virgo, out of that damn fear at once, it won’t take you anywhere. Yes, there are times when it is okay to be a person reserved to protect yourself, but when you are with your partner, a person you must trust, those fears and those insecurities should go outside.
When you are in a relationship, Libra, you are very afraid that they will not know how to value you. You are afraid to give all your love and all your heart to someone who does not know how to appreciate it. You, too, are terrified of the idea of failing that person, of not being enough for your partner. You have such high expectations normally, Libra, that you want them to be fulfilled. You don’t want them to play with your dreams, you don’t want to be treated in a way you don’t deserve. But, Libra, we are sorry to tell you that we are on the plane of reality and that yes, it is okay to have dreams and have expectations, but things are not always as we imagine.
Take off those fears and face reality as it is.
Once you do not, when you realize how everything is, you will feel much safer. You have to be yourself at all times, Libra, that you don’t forget. And if at any time you see that your partner does not treat you as you deserve or that you do not value yourself enough, leave the fears behind and leave things very clear. Libra, fear is not going anywhere.
Your biggest fear when you’re in a relationship, Scorpio, is the fear of being unfaithful. That is something that really does not let you sleep or move forward. You can’t help it, you get inside to be so suspicious. There are times when you try to work with confidence and security, but then, at the time you least expect it, you are again a jealous person. You hate being like that, you don’t like anything, but you can’t do anything.
It is within you, it is something that you cannot control as much as you want. And all those jealousies, they come for the fear that they fail you, for the fear of betrayal and disappointment.
You do not want them to play with your heart and for that, you will do everything possible to avoid it.
You can’t stand the idea of imagining how your partner is being unfaithful to another person. But, Scorpio, if your partner fully trusts you, you should also trust her as much as possible. It’s okay to be a protective person, but sometimes you reach limits a bit dangerous …
What you fear most, Sagittarius, is commitment. And there is no more. You are very afraid of committing yourself to the wrong person and therefore, wasting your time and opportunities. For you, time is more valuable than gold and you don’t want to waste it with anyone. Therefore, before committing, before starting a serious relationship, you make sure that person is THE PERSON. You do not want to waste another opportunity as if nothing, you do not want to leave your heart in the hands of anyone. All for the damn fear of commitment, Sagittarius.
There are times when you push yourself too much and see that, coming from you, that’s a bit weird.
But, in love, you are a different person. Speaking of relationships, you are a person who is careful. Although normally you are a thrown person, who let’s go, in love you are much more cautious and careful. On the one hand, it is good to be like that, because in the end, you save yourself a lot of trouble, but on the other hand, it would be nice if you will let yourself be more carried away to enjoy the moment.
What terrifies you the most when you are in a relationship, Capricorn, is to set aside all your responsibilities and your obligations. You are afraid that because of love you forget your projects and forget to follow your passions. You are a super hardworking person, who concentrates a lot to get everything he proposes. There are times, Capricorn, that you think love is a distraction, is something that will only bring impediments and problems in your life. But you are wrong, Capricorn.
Love is something else, something that can bring you a million wonderful things.
You have to know how to manage time very well, Capri, and there is no doubt that you are an expert in that, so stop being afraid. When you are in a relationship, you will have to organize a little more and you will also have to learn to prioritize your time, but that does not mean that your passions and your dreams are going to be destroyed by love. You are a super responsible person, so, trust you more, Capricorn. Trust that you will be able to do whatever you set out to do, even fall in love.
When you are in a relationship, Aquarius, you are very afraid of losing your freedom. You don’t want to change, you don’t want to leave what you’re doing just for someone else. You are afraid of falling in love with a person who does not know how to understand or value you. And it is that you, Aquarius, are one of the signs that fears most love in general. Having to show your feelings for someone already seems too difficult.
Admitting that you are falling in love is something that you do not find a dish of good taste, Aquarius.
But you must take those fears off once. Those fears are not going to take you anywhere and they are going to hurt you more than you imagine. You are the sole owner of your life, Aquarius, and it is up to you to let yourself be manipulated by another person or stand up from the beginning and say that your freedom is only yours. And if you are in a relationship where your partner does not value you as you really deserve, it is very easy what you have to do. Aquarius, stop being afraid of love, because in the end when you least expect it you will realize that you have truly fallen in love.
Your biggest fear, Pisces, in a relationship is that your partner does not live up to your expectations. You are afraid of the idea of being with a person who doesn’t know you or treats you. You are a super dream person, Pisces, and many times you think the world is pink. That’s why, when you fall in love, you want everything to be perfect, everything to be like Disney movies. And you are afraid that you will be disappointed and that things are not as you imagined.
Moreover, you suffer only thinking about the idea that can break your heart.
But, Pisces, to take away those fears, the first thing you have to do is start being much more realistic and lower those expectations. It’s okay to dream and imagine the life you would like to have, but you must also assume and accept reality as such. Obviously we all like things to go as we imagined, but the reality is not so. Once you take away those ‘fantastic’ ideas from your head and face reality, those fears will disappear.