In the age of modern encounters, where we are surrounded by women’s runners, narcissistic men and little boys, it is difficult to find a real man who will love us as we deserve to be loved.
It is hard to find a man who will appreciate us for what we are and will make us believe in love again.
A real man will make you feel as if you are all their universe, as if there was no one but you.
You will have no problem being yourself with him, you will be both lovers and friends. You behave like fools to each other, but you will always keep that crazy passion we all need.
One moment you will be tickling or fighting on the pillow, and the next moment you will roll in the sheets.
Your real man will know that you are not perfect, but he will treat you as if you were. He will appreciate you for what you have in your head, for your achievements and skills, rather than for your appearance and other short-term qualities.
He will consider you as his equal, as a life partner and will always consider your opinion when it comes to new decisions.
And he will always be there, through difficult times and moments of pleasure. You can count on him whatever happens to you, because he will be happy to be with you whatever happens.
A real man will make sure you know that you are the best thing that has happened to him. It will make you smile every morning, and it will be a ritual like drinking coffee or brushing your teeth. He’ll make sure you never get angry or sad.
It will make you understand why all the other men were just passing through, and why all the other men made you feel like you’re just getting along while it makes you feel like you’re in the right place.
It will make you realize that it is the unconditional love you have been waiting for all your life, the crazy love that warms you from head to toe during the cold and lonely nights.
It will make you realize that the love of your life comes after the mistake of your life. Some relationships are meant to teach us what love is not, they are meant to break us only so that we can build ourselves as we could never have imagined.
They are there to make us appreciate more who we are and to avoid being crushed just for fear of finishing alone. And what I’ve learned is that once it happens, we know it.
Once you have found your real man, you will wonder why you were worried.
Your real man will make you appreciate all the little things you share; that quick breakfast before you go to work, the little coffee breaks stolen in your workdays or the lazy evenings you spend together on the couch listening to each other’s heartbeat.
It will make you feel desirable even when you are in pajamas. It will make you feel desirable even when you do not feel like it. Your real man will go out with you for the rest of your life, because he will. He will only want you.
So, do not settle for less, do not settle for an asshole who goes out with you only for physical.
Do not settle for this poisonous ass who constantly criticizes you, constantly belittling you so that he can feel good about himself.
Do not settle for this little boy who needs a mother, who needs you to be caring for him, because he can not take care of himself.
Do not be satisfied with this guy who does not make you feel anything, and do not settle for someone who kills all the butterflies in you.
Wait for your true man, the one who will know that you are sufficient. Who will make you melt beneath his touch, that will burn your lips with his own and make you feel like you’re a gift from heaven.