I want you to know that I understand you perfectly when you say that you are madly in love with him.
I understand, he is handsome, easygoing and successful in his work. I know you like spending time with him.
In those moments that you both spend together, there is so much chemistry in the air.
And that’s why I do not blame you for being the happiest person on earth when you’re with him.
But, I just want you to know something: everything that shines in your eyes will eventually disappear and all that will remain will be your love for him.
So, slow down. I know you think he’s a great guy, but you’re also a great girl.
So, why do you settle for less than you deserve?
You do not need a guy who can not decide what he wants in life. If he wants to be with you, he must be able to decide.
Otherwise, it does not make sense. I tell you all this because I see you are overwhelmed by everything that happens to you.
You do not have clear ideas when you are in his company and he claims he is going through a difficult time because he has to make a decision. You know what ?
Choosing you should not be a decision. It should be as normal as breathing.
He is just another idiot who takes you on a boat and who tells you beautiful stories to take advantage of you.
So, do not be crazy enough to let him get away with it. Stop waiting for him. His indecision is a decision.
He made his decision a long time ago, but you do not see it yet. He lost you the day he did not choose you.
So, do not be stupid to stay with him. You have so much to offer the good and the good will make you happy.
So, when you leave, do not think you’re going to miss anything. You are just going to spare yourself tears.
Believe me, because I’ve been there. By staying, you make your agony last longer than it should.
You deliberately hurt yourself because you think it will change.
You are assured that your huge love for him will make him a better person. False! Because he is not ready for change.
It will change when it is ready, not when you want it. So why change for him? It’s not someone who deserves it.
You are special and unique as you are and you should not change for anyone other than yourself.
Do not you see that you deserve so much more than he can give you?
Do not you see that a man like him does not know what he wants in his life?
At one point, he wants you, and the next moment he feels like it’s too complicated for him to have a relationship.
Come on, you do not have to put up with all that crap. You deserve someone who will select you every day.
You deserve a love that lasts and in which everything makes sense. Because in the end, love is not so complicated. Either we like or we do not like. It’s that simple.
I do not want you to hate me for opening your eyes now. You’ll thank me later.
I save you from a miserable life with a man who will never love you as you deserve. I’m just trying to help you finally get everything you deserve.
Because, frankly, you’re a much better person than him.
I know you would never do this to anyone in life. I know you will never play hot and cold with him.
I know you’re frank and this feature puts you in a higher class than the other women I’ve met in my life.
So, please, turn it out of your life. Show him that love is not a one-way thing.
Tell him he does not deserve a woman like you, because you are stronger than him and you could possibly scare him.
And when you finally let him go, go out to celebrate.
Because the night you leave it will be a whole new chapter in your life. Only this time, I hope it will be with someone who is worth the wait!