You can tell from these 12 signs that he wants you back
A breakup is no easy task – we all know it. And most of us know the feeling when you regret the breakup after a while and want to have your ex-partner back. Would your ex want you back?
You can tell from these 12 signs that your ex really misses you and wants to be with you again.
1. HE MAKES YOU FEEL GUILTY
After the breakup, some men use rather unsightly methods to win back their ex-girlfriend. He tries to make you feel guilty and wants to show you that he is bad because he is alone now. In this case, you can be pretty sure that he’s not over you yet and would actually like to have you back.
2. YOUR SEPARATION WAS NOT LONG AGO
Maybe you just broke up recently and your separation was only a few days or a maximum of 2-3 weeks ago. If the separation came from your side, you can be sure that he is still thinking of you and would want to try again if there was a chance. Especially if he was very much in love with you, he may still need time to get along alone. So he most likely misses you a lot, but may not want to admit it.
3. HE ASKS YOU TO FORGIVE ME
Does he suddenly apologize for his behavior even though he didn’t want to see in the past that it was his fault? Did he always think that he’s right and you’re wrong? But suddenly he changes his mind? This means that he has rethought his behavior and regrets the separation. But this does not necessarily mean that he is really serious. Sometimes men only apologize to avoid disputes.
4. HE TRIES TO NEGOTIATE WITH YOU
Another sign that he actually wants you back is when your ex is discussing or trying to negotiate with you about the future. He’s probably not over you yet. He keeps talking about that he will change and that you need to restart. This behavior indicates that he cannot let it rest and you are still in his head.
5. HE CANNOT PROPERLY ACCEPT THE SEPARATION
Even if he cannot accept the separation, you know that he is trying to save the relationship. He thinks that separation is not the solution and cannot leave it as it is. He may even try to talk you out of it or pretend nothing has happened. If you think separation is what you both need, don’t let yourself be persuaded to change your mind. He will soon reach this phase of acceptance and you will have peace of mind.
6. HE APPEARS TO BE SAD OR DEPRESSED
Is he otherwise a happy person, but he’s been in a bad mood since the breakup? Of course, he misses you and of course, this is an indication that he wants you back. He has not yet processed the separation. He might feel bad about other things too. However, the likelihood that it is due to the separation is very high.
7. HE DENIES THE SEPARATION AND PRETENDS YOU ARE STILL TOGETHER
Even though you’ve clearly separated from him, he still pretends to be a couple. This is an indication that he still wants you by his side – at all costs. You should be aware of what is best for you. Maybe you need a bit of freedom yourself or have already finished with everything. Then you should make it absolutely clear to him and set your limits.
8. HE REALLY WANTS TO KEEP IN TOUCH WITH YOU
Or else he understood that you are no longer a couple. But he still talks to you all the time. Because he really wants to keep in touch. He can’t just let you go out of his life and at least wants you as a kind of friend in his life. However, the separation will only progress more slowly if you keep in touch all the time. So is this really what you want?
9. HE IS STILL SINGLE
Many men jump into new relationships immediately after the breakup or at least have a few dates here and there. This helps them hide the separation for a moment and leave the past behind. However, if he is still single, even though your separation was a long time ago, this is a sign that he is likely to want to try again.
10. HE WANTS TO BE CONSTANTLY INFORMED ABOUT YOUR LIFE
If he looks at your pictures on Facebook, you keep getting new likes from him, sometimes even for old posts from the time you were together, then this is a clear sign that he is still mourning you. He wants you back because you mean a lot to him.
11. HE WANTS TO IMPRESS YOU
When men want to undo the breakup, they often fall back in love. They act as the beginning of your relationship and try to impress you. Does he treat you like his princess? Then you can be sure that he wants you by his side again.
12. HIS BEHAVIOR IS STRANGE
Sometimes men behave strangely in such a situation. You can’t really assess them and you don’t even know where you stand with them. He’s probably not over you yet, but don’t know how to tell you or how to deal with this situation.
Sometimes men are just honest and straightforward. In this case, he will tell you that he misses you and wants you back. However he behaves, you should listen to your heart and never let his behavior persuade or confuse you.