Most people tend to blame the other person when the relationship begins to become toxic, but they don’t realize that a relationship is something of two or more people. If you want to discover what it is that you do so badly that turns your relationship into something toxic, continue reading, it can also serve you a lot in the future, grab paper and pen and don’t miss any details.
ARIES: Aries poisons your relationships too much by getting angry at anything throughout the day. It is true that their rage attacks are not lasting, but they are intense enough to end the patience of the other person. In addition, they do not take care of a single word of everything they say and that can do a lot of damage.
Anger should not be anyone’s first response, but Aries’ impulses often cause him to lose his papers, especially if the relationship has not worked for a long time. A relationship is a matter of two, it is possible that he/she is screwing up, but he is not the only one.
TAURUS: When Taurus begins to lose his temper, he may end up holding too much resentment and that is what leads him to turn his relationship into something toxic. You can’t stop thinking about all those mistakes and bad actions your partner has made and this can cause a lot of tension. It is okay to tell a person who has done something wrong, but to be remembering it 24/7 is torture.
Taurus does it in the most unconscious way, but it is because he is very hurt by all the damage that his partner has done to him. He/she should focus on moving forward and looking at all those good actions that your partner is doing to regain their confidence if not, it would be best if each one chose their path
GEMINI: Gemini has a problem and sometimes he speaks without listening. He loves to hear the sound of his voice, but he never gives anyone the opportunity to express his opinion, feelings or emotions. This is not something that helps communication as a couple so this can turn your relationship into something truly toxic.
What happens to Gemini is that he doesn’t realize, he has so many things to share that he does it without wanting to. On many occasions, he interrupts in the middle of a sentence and changes the subject without his partner being heard. He is a person who knows very well how to use communication, has all the tools, all he has to do is slow down and always remember that your partner also has the right to be heard.
CANCER: Cancer is a very intense person and everything that lives does it with great intensity. He is a person who takes everything personally, is offended too quickly and this can end the patience of his partner. You should learn that everything is not about him/her, you should assume that a critical comment is not always bad, and the people who love it do it for their own good.
That Cancer attitude can be quite toxic, your partner may feel that he will always have to be pulling the car and can run away. Cancer does not do all this betting, is part of his personality and is very clear that whoever does not like can go the same way he has come.
LEO: Sometimes Leo can become quite stubborn, he can make his relationship become toxic and just by getting his way. A relationship implies giving and receiving, not just taking. Getting what he/she wants all the time means that your partner will never be able to satisfy your needs and desires. This can extinguish the flame of the relationship or, worse, turn the relationship into something truly toxic.
Leo does it unintentionally, he is actually a very generous person, but the impulsiveness of getting exactly what he wants can sometimes with him/her. There must be a shared responsibility, and both parties should feel that their voice is important.
VIRGO: Virgo is a too perfectionist person, this implies that everything has to be under control and that his opinion is the only one that is valid. And yes, he knows a lot, but other people too. This can be a big obstacle to your relationship. Your partner can get tired of so much pressure, he/she is not aware but puts your partner under unnecessary pressure of perfectionism.
Virgo should let go for the moment and not be so aware of everything that happens, he should listen to his partner because together they can create a healthy relationship. It is clear that, if he/she always goes free, there will only be a relationship full of toxic attitudes.
LIBRA: Libra doesn’t like conflict at all, this makes it a shop to make everything great when it’s not. He is a person who is not able to face the conflicts of a couple, is very afraid of losing what he wants most in this world and does not realize that acting like this is already losing him …
It is clear that Libra’s intention is not to poison the relationship, but not being honest with his feelings causes this whole situation. Libra should leave all her fears behind and try to resolve all her misunderstandings with her partner. He doesn’t want to lose the love of his life, but if he doesn’t fix that, everything can come to an end.
SCORPIO: Scorpio is very clear about its principles and will never act against them. This can make your relationship become toxic, you don’t know how to give your arm a twist. He is a very mysterious person, he has a hard time opening himself and tends to deny everything. This can be quite frustrating for your partner and may lead you to put an end to a relationship that could have been magical.
Scorpio should lower his guard a little and not always be defensive. He does this because he does not want to be harmed again, he is tired of having his heart broken again and again, but he must change your attitude if he really wants someone to love him.
SAGITTARIUS: On many occasions, Sagittarius has many doubts and instead of taking time with his partner he begins to create an excuse to hide his feelings and that is when he makes his relationship become toxic. He/she prefers to do anything rather than work to fix something that is impossible. He knows that when the magic is over there is nothing left to do.
What Sagittarius should do is not let the relationship reach that point. You must arm yourself with courage and put an end to that relationship in order to at least be friends. He is an optimistic person, but the toxicity of his relationship can make him become a person with a very unpleasant mood …
CAPRICORN: Capricorn tends to poison his relationship with the constant criticism of his partner. Nobody likes to be judged and bring all their failures to light, especially if everything comes from your partner. He is a very demanding person and whenever he sees something that does not convince him he will say so. You should put aside that facet of yours and focus on emphasizing all the good that your partner has, if not, the thing will end very badly …
Capricorn has very high expectations and is not fair to your partner. I should assume that the perfect person does not exist, everyone has flaws, including him/her, but it is hard to recognize him. If Capri does not change that attitude, he can be quite alone.
AQUARIUS: It is true that Aquarius can become a fairly closed and distant person. Rejecting someone when they need to express their emotions is not kind and can be quite harmful to their relationship. This can make your partner not feel important enough and want to fly from that toxic relationship that Aquarius is creating.
What Aquarius should do is open the mind, heart, and soul to let love flood its entire interior. You must stop being such a tough person and start being something more sensitive. He/she tries, but sometimes it is impossible, they have done too much damage and do not trust even people’s hair.
PISCES: Pisces does not usually realize, but sometimes he spends his day complaining about everything, he does not accept the possible solutions he presents to his problems, nothing convinces him. Listening to someone complain 24/7 is exhausting and that can make a relationship toxic.
What Pisces should do is change its perspective and instead of stopping at the negative, it should go a little deeper into the positive side of things. The fact that something has not turned out as expected did not mean that it will not happen at another time in life. Pisces is constantly bitter and does not realize that being so can lose the love of his life.