When The Signs Fall In Love Too Quickly And Why They Should Not
Falling quickly in love with someone and giving everything right away is the first sign that your relationship is not going to work out. In the vast majority of cases, when we give everything right away, the other person loses interest as quickly as it has been generated. The feeling that we will always be there makes this person not have to make an effort, get bored and quickly look for another goal. When the signs fall in love too quickly and why they shouldn’t:
It is true that there are some signs that are more limiting when it comes to falling in love, but there are also those who give everything from the start. And what is happening? Well, they are the same signs that you end up suffering great heartbreak, anxiety, and many self-esteem problems. Even though love disappointments cannot be avoided, there are a number of things that we must take into account about ourselves. They will allow us to act in a more relaxed way and, best of all, to avoid always falling into the same relationships that lead us nowhere.
Aries, if you don’t want to fall into this heartbreak, you should start to relax a bit. Sometimes, you want it all, there are no half-measures that are worth it and this can be your big mistake. Going from 0 to 100 in a short period of time will lead you to failure. The best? By making a little effort and distracting yourself with other things you can reduce, a little, these rushes that always accompany you.
Taurus, sometimes you can be very heavy and insistent in terms of commitment. Formalizing a relationship is not something that can be done, nor should it be done, after a few days. People are not as traditional as you and you put a lot of hope in something that you don’t even have insured. Let the days go by, get to know the other person well (without stress) and time will tell. Does it cost you? Well, focus on your work and you will divert a bit from this obsession with wanting everything from now on.
Gemini, you are very easily conquered by your intellect and, sometimes, you can let yourself be dazzled without checking the real intentions of the other person. By assuming that you connect and that you share qualities (topics of conversation, tastes, interests, etc.), you let yourself go and begin to create hopes that are not always fulfilled. You don’t want to run so much and make sure before you start dreaming, that this person wants the same thing as you.
Cancer and emotions allow you to live life much more intensely than many other people. However, when they hit you, it also hurts a lot more. The truth is that by being sweet with you, those who want to conquer you, have it easy. And you give in very quickly, which leads them to lose interest in you. Make use of your intuition and do not give so much until you are sure of the worth of this person.
With you, Leo, they have it clear. You are a very independent person and, although you do not refuse to have stable relationships, you are well aware that not all that glitters is gold. Therefore, you usually bring out this part of the alpha that is in you and set the pace of the relationship. However, there are times when flattery can send you off track. If you want to avoid these situations, don’t believe everything they tell you and see if this admiration is sustained over time or if the other person gets tired in a short period of time.
Virgo, You tend to be assertive and you know where the limits are, but when you fall in love… All the perfection that you put into everything you do, all this analytical capacity that you overflow with, gets lost along the way. It is not bad that you are somewhat less strict or demanding, but it is when this change is due to falling in love. Why? Well, because when this happens, you will see all the defects of this person, and the world will fall apart. Or, are you going to put up with what you dislike to maintain the relationship and when the other person realizes it, they will end it? You will feel devastated and you will be too critical of yourself for not having taken the step. Do you know what to do? When you see that you are going through the roof, get away from this person with any excuse. This time will help you maintain a bit of space and will allow you to better analyze who seems to be your better half.
Anyone who follows your rules and routines, as well as your rhythm of life, will quickly slip into your heart. And this, possibly, he will do only at first to like you and then he will want to change things. But, if you are already very caught, it will be difficult for you to deny the change. This will create an imbalance within you, between what you want and what you should do. The problem? That you need this balance. Don’t fall in love so fast. Don’t let this person you just met get mixed up in your routines right off the bat.
It’s hard for you to fall in love quickly, but anything can happen, right? In fact, if you are reading this it is because, even if you are somewhat cold and distrustful, it has happened to you. What went wrong? Well, at some point, the other person saw your way of being and played the same game to dazzle you. You are always attracted to those who are similar to you. And if you rushed too much to fall in love, now you will have to suffer. Do you know what we advise you? That you be suspicious, at least right off the bat, of these people who “look” a lot like you or with whom you have “a lot of similarities”.
Sagi, you can fall in love quickly, but you also know how to turn the page, which allows you to suffer less than many other signs that remain stuck in the past. In your case, things are different. But, you have a tendency to fall in love at lightning speed when you see a person with the same way of seeing life. Have you ever stopped to think that, perhaps, he is only showing you this fluidity so that you fall into his trap? Don’t get carried away by this. Even if you fall in love, keep spending time with your friends and this time will tell you if this person is really how they want you to see them.
Capri, friend, you tend to be very observant and you have the great ability to see the intentions of others easily. But, if they manage to dazzle you, you have fallen. And how can this happen? Well, accepting all the conditions that you impose or the rules that prevail in your life without further ado. Those who really love you will give you their most sincere opinions and will be upset if you don’t spend more time with them. When you meet a person who accepts everything without asking for anything in return, be wary or you will be a victim, once again, of heartbreak.
Your independence is your treasure and whoever wants to dazzle you will easily find this weak point in you. And what will this person do to make you fall in love quickly? Leaving you all the space in the world, although things will change once they have you in their networks. Therefore, be wary and do not quickly fall in love with someone who seems to respect, 100%, your taste for freedom.
Pisces, we are very sorry, but you already know that you tend to fall victim to heartbreak easily since you give everything without asking for anything in return. And from the get-go, you go out of your way to meet the other person’s needs. Do you want to change this situation? Learn to prioritize yourself and demand the same as you give. If there is not this balance, get out before all the alarms go off and you end up crying in all corners.