So you lost your twin flame. Looks familiar.
It doesn’t matter if you were the one who ran or you were the one who hunted. You’re guaranteed to feel lost, confused, and your heart is torn by now.
You may also be wondering how is it possible for someone else to hurt you so badly? Before you even knew it, you were going too deep with this person. That energy, that wave that overwhelmed you and blew you away.
Know that you are not alone. There are many others who are having the same experience right now and on the other hand, there are others who will never understand your current situation. That said, you’ll only understand if you haven’t been through it yourself.
As someone who has personally had this experience, I have nothing but an experience that I can share and, after reflection, pass on knowledge to others.
In this article, we’re going to reflect on the runner and hunter phases of a twin flame separation. Suppose you met your twin at this point, experienced the bubble love phase and now the bubble has burst and you are completely destroyed inside.
There are many symptoms after a Twin Flame breakup, and they are not like normal breakups.
These symptoms can include severe insomnia, unexplained heart or chest pain, irrational thoughts that lead to psychosis, and unpredictable and obsessive behavior. You literally feel like you are out of your mind.
The pain goes so deep that it feels impossible to hug and heal because the breakup is too much for you to bear. A twin flame breakup can literally bring you to your knees and that is exactly the purpose. Surrender, surrender to your pain, surrender to your suffering, and surrender to yourself.
The Runner and the Hunter
Upon separation, it is immediately easy to identify with one of the two roles. When your twin first walks away, you identify with the hunter, and when you move away, you identify with the runner.
The hunter continues to hunt and the runner continues to run while this mirrored push-pull process continues. The hunter will not give up looking for new ways to ignite the flames. But eventually, he gives up and surrenders. The ego intervenes as it recognizes the irrational behavior.
With this surrender, the hunter will soon discover that he was indeed not the hunter all along. But the runner.
You see twins are a mirror image of each other, your twin flame is you.
When you pursue the external, you pursue the connectedness. You chase what you think could be love. You follow the fairy tale that you have built up in your head and you try to grasp what cannot be held. Like when you hold water in your hands, love can only flow, it cannot be held.
So with all the chases you finally realize that you have run away from yourself. When you chase your twin you are chasing yourself, you are running away from yourself … and you are running away from your twin.
Now that we have identified the fact that both the runner and the hunter are actually running away from themselves … and as we know, you are your twin flame. Now we can understand that there is no way to be together while you are both running.
What can you do? Let go.
If we remove every emotion, judgment, and expectation, only love remains. Lovelies in the stillness of the soul. Love is without action, attachment, or necessity. Love is the subtle energy that flows through all of creation. Love exceeds your being in the ascent. Love is the harmony and the music of the universe, love is all there is.
In this silence, you will find the knowledge that you are only a vessel and the vessel is the illusion. One love is the truth.