1: virgin

 

Virgins are known to be critical of others, but they are even more concerned about themselves. They always strive to fix things that go wrong, and for some, this may mean they are trying to find problems from the outset.

They adhere to a high standard, which is often unrealistic, so that if they fail to do so, they feel as if they are constantly failing.

They like to be in control of the events in their lives and will blame themselves for things beyond their control, even though they logically realize that there is nothing they could have done.

How you can help

If you have a virgin in your life, assure her that, although not everything is under her control, that says nothing about her. Encourage her when she tries to reach a goal – not in a cheesy way, but let her know that you recognize when she is doing well.

When she starts to argue about how bad things are, let her steam, but do not hesitate to remind her of the good.

A virgin works hard to make things as good as possible, but remind her that it’s okay to rest and sometimes take a break.

2: Capricorn

 

Like virgins, ibexes like to have control over everything around them. They are very conscientious and diligent, but they often go beyond their limits.

They usually focus their self-esteem on being successful in all walks of life, so if it does not seem to work so well in even one area, they find it hard to think well about themselves.

They invest their value in their services and maintain a very high standard. They also tend to lean on the more pessimistic side to avoid disappointment, but this often leads to a negative view of themselves and the good things that happen to them.

How you can help
If you have a Capricorn in your life, pay attention to their achievements, but let them know that you appreciate them, despite these things.

They will not ask for help and they hate the idea that they will ever need them, but letting them know that you are there for them, if they ever need anything, can do wonders for them.

Remind them that they are more than just their success. Support them, but do not add fuel to the fire. Encourage her to take a break from time to time, and that does not make her weak.

3: Scorpio

 

Scorpions tend to have big trust problems. While they usually claim that they can only rely on themselves and exude self-confidence, their lack of trust in others reflects a lack of self-confidence.

They will hold people accountable for doing something questionable, but secretly they will wonder if they are the reason why it happened. While they tend to cause great commotion for others, they will hardly give themselves the same treatment.

They keep walls high to prevent them from meeting anyone, and even believe the lie that no one can ever really love them the way they are.

How you can help
If you have a scorpion in your life, patience is very important here. It may take a long time for a scorpion to open for someone, and even then they are still wary.

They may attack you sometimes, but just remind them that you are not hurting them, but that you are deeply interested and want to be there for them – just be ready to actually be there.

Encourage them when they try to be vulnerable. Remind them what a great person they are in your eyes.

4: Fish

 

Fish will strive to be there for everyone else except themselves. They tend to believe that their problems and feelings fall by the wayside and that they are not as important as everyone else.

Although this makes them selfless friends, it may soon cause them to back off and begin to fear that even their presence is a burden to those who love them.

They are often attracted to partners and friends who are very lavish in their praise and affection, and see this as proof that they are worthy of their affection.

This is not a negative thing, but it can make the fish dependent on this kind of affirmation instead of learning to give it to themselves.

How you can help
If you have fish-people in your life, pay attention to the signals they give. If you have a bad day, encourage her to talk to you about it.

When they try to push things away, gently remind them that you are there for them and are interested in what they have to say. Listen to them and offer your support. Often remind them of what you really like about them, not just on the surface.

 

 

 

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