The opposite of love is not hated. The opposite of love is indifference. For those of you who haven’t seen it yet, when someone you think will take care of you, whether it’s a friend or someone you meet, suddenly ignores you.
The classic is when you date a guy and everything starts quite well, but after a while, he suddenly disappears from the scene. No more calls, no messages, no sign of life. Nowadays this is called ghosting.
But ghosting is not new. People have been involved with it for a while. In today’s dating culture, ghosting is a phenomenon that about 50 percent of men and women have experienced. And almost the same number has hosted someone before.
Regardless of how often ghosting takes place these days, the emotional impact can be devastating, particularly harming those who already have low self-esteem.
But why ghost people anyway?
People who host others focus primarily on alleviating their own emotional discomfort and don’t think about how the other person feels about it. Also, because many people get to know each other online these days, there are not very strong social connections at the beginning, such as would come about when you get to know each other face-to-face.
As a result, ghosting (when people suddenly drop out of their own life) has fewer social consequences for most people. The more it happens, either to yourself or to others, the less sensitive people become to it and the more likely it is that they will do it to someone else.
But in truth, it always leaves emotional injuries.
For many people, ghosting can make them feel like they are not respected and have been used. If you have known the person for a longer period of time, it can be even more traumatic. When someone we love and trust that comes away from us, it feels like a very deep betrayal.
To prevent this from happening to you, I would like to introduce you to the four zodiac signs that tend to ghost other people. The special thing about them is that they suddenly come back to you at some point. Here’s why:
The fish need a lot of harmonies. He hates to argue or fight and tries to keep the peace as long as possible. Love and friendship are particularly important to him. But he sometimes loses touch with reality because he is a daydreamer.
For this reason, he does things that he regrets afterward. In relationships, he quickly moves away from people who are really interested in him. He realizes very late – mostly too late – that he has made a big mistake. He then realizes that this person has actually done him good.
So you can expect a fish to come back to you at some point if it initially went quite well, but it suddenly ignored you. This is because he realized that he wanted you in his life. It is then, of course, your decision whether you want to get involved again.
As is well known, twins have big problems with making decisions. They just think too much about things and find it very difficult to make a decision. If a date did not go well for you, then under no circumstances will you contact your dating partner.
Because they simply believe that a higher power has decided this for them and that it should simply not be so. After a few weeks, however, the twin will bitterly regret his decision. He will come back to you and wants to give the whole thing another chance. Would you be ready for that again?
As we all know, virgins are very reserved and struggle to show their feelings. They prefer to bury emotions so that they don’t have to deal with them. In addition, they very rarely give people a chance to be in their lives. You generally prefer to keep them at a distance.
But when they have really opened up to someone and all their hidden feelings suddenly surface, they are so scared of themselves and their emotional world that they first need to distance themselves. After her self-discovery phase, the virgin will slowly take steps on you again. How would you react to that?
Cancer is one of the most emotional signs of the zodiac, even though it has a hard shell. Its core is all the softer for that. It is quite difficult to crack and difficult to see through. After the first
Dates he will surely withdraw and go on. He absolutely needs this time to classify his feelings and to think about them. It often comes out at this time that he has real feelings for someone.
Then he will report back to one or the other. Sometimes, however, it is already too late for him because he has let himself go too long. How about you Does he deserve a second chance?