These 17 Weird Behaviors Show that you’ve finally met a good man
Many women have the problem that they keep running into the wrong men. So they don’t even know what it feels like when they suddenly meet one of the good men. Especially if you have often gotten to the wrong men, you can struggle with uncomfortable feelings when you suddenly meet a man who really reciprocates your feelings. He might be the right one, but you’re backing down because all the complicated and dramatic men screwed you up beforehand.
Don’t let that happen and be aware of the signals you have to watch out for in order to find out if he’s the right one:
1. YOU DON’T VALUE HIS PROMISES, BUT HE STILL KEEPS HIS WORD.
This makes you happy in an almost uncomfortable way. It seems too easy with him and you think something is wrong. But he just keeps his word as a real man would.
2. HE DOESN’T LOOK TO YOU TO BLAME.
You’re used to making mistakes. That’s why you always feel the urge to apologize for everything. But this man shows you that you don’t have to do this.
3. YOU HAVE GREAT DOUBTS THAT ARE NOT JUSTIFIED.
You don’t actually doubt him, you doubt relationships in general. That’s a big difference. You are insecure because you have had certain experiences in the past.
4. YOU HAVE NO EXPECTATIONS, BUT HE STILL SURPRISES YOU.
You just don’t want to get your hopes up because you are afraid that you will be disappointed again. But it doesn’t disappoint you, it surprises you again and again.
5. HE’S PROVING THAT HE DOESN’T WANT TO HURT YOU.
You still have the fear that you might get hurt again. But with him, you somehow have the feeling that you don’t have to be afraid. Your head tries to hold you back all the time, but actually, your heart already knows that you are in safe hands.
6. YOU THINK THAT THE NEXT ARGUMENT WILL END IT ALL, BUT IT DOESN’T.
You didn’t experience it any differently. Every argument was always an end in your relationships. You could never have an argument without drama. That is why you are now amazed at how calmly he solves the problems with you.
7. HE FIGHTS FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
Maybe it’s the first time you’ve experienced this. But it’s true: if a man really loves and respects you, then he will fight for you.
8. HE IS KIND TO YOU.
You’re not used to that either. Suddenly there is someone who is really nice and attentive. It’s not that easy for you. Because you notice what actually went wrong before.
9. YOU CAME ACROSS AN HONEST MAN.
You always questioned all the words of your exes. But this man is just so brutally honest that there is nothing left to question.
10. YOU FEEL RESPECTED BY HIM.
He values you as a person and really cares about the things you do that interest you. He wants to show you that he is there for you on an emotional level. He takes care of you.
11. IT CHANGES YOUR LIFE.
This is also a point that you will probably only now realize. People can change your life and make you really happy.
12. A RELATIONSHIP DOESN’T HAVE TO HURT.
Love doesn’t always have to cause pain. Because when you’ve found someone who is good for you, you know what true love means.
13. HE DOESN’T PLAY WITH YOU.
Your messages will be answered as normal and you think you shouldn’t get excited too soon. Your plan always works out and you feel uncomfortable because you are not used to it.
14. ALL OF THIS REMINDS YOU OF YOUR PAST, BUT IT DOESN’T REPEAT ITSELF.
His behavior makes you think back to past relationships in your life. But you only remember them because you realize how terrible they were in contrast to the current relationship. This man is now showing you how it should actually work.
15. HE UNDERSTANDS YOUR INSECURITY.
He probably senses that you are unsure. But he is patient with you and continues to be good to you. He doesn’t judge you for it.
16. HE STAYS EVEN THOUGH YOU SHOW YOUR WORST VERSION OF YOURSELF.
You break down or go crazy and by now you are probably thinking that he’s leaving you out in the rain. Wrong thought: this man is there holding the umbrella for you. Because he understands that nobody is perfect.
17. HE’S TOTALLY IN LOVE.
Now you also know how men behave when they are totally in love. He reciprocates your feelings and wants to be with you all the time. It should be so!