These 17 strange behaviors show that you have finally met a good man
Many women have the problem that they keep getting the wrong men. They therefore no longer know what it feels like to suddenly meet one of the good men. Especially if you have often gotten into the wrong men, you may have to deal with uncomfortable feelings when you suddenly meet a man who really reciprocates your feelings. He may be the right one, but you back off because all the complicated and dramatic men screwed you up beforehand.
Don’t let that happen and be aware of the signals you need to watch out for to find out if he’s the right one:
1. YOU DON’T VALUE HIS PROMISES, BUT HE STILL KEEPS HIS WORD.
This almost makes you happy in an uncomfortable way. It seems too easy with him and you think something is wrong. But he just keeps his word, like a real man would.
2. HE DOES NOT BLAME YOU.
You are used to making mistakes. That’s why you always feel the urge to apologize for everything. But this man shows you that you don’t have to do this.
3. YOU HAVE GREAT DOUBTS THAT ARE NOT JUSTIFIED.
You don’t actually doubt him, but generally relationships. That’s a big difference. You are insecure because you have had certain past experiences.
4. YOU HAVE NO EXPECTATIONS, BUT HE SURPRISES YOU ANYWAY.
You just don’t want to get your hopes up because you’re afraid you’ll be disappointed again. But he doesn’t disappoint you, he surprises you again and again.
5. HE SHOWS THAT HE DOESN’T WANT TO HURT YOU.
There is still the fear within you that you could be hurt again. But with him you somehow feel that you don’t have to be afraid. Your head tries to hold you back all the time, but actually your heart already knows that you are in safe hands.
6. YOU THINK THE NEXT ARGUMENT WILL END EVERYTHING, BUT THAT’S NOT THE CASE.
You have not experienced it differently. Every argument has always been an end to your relationships. You could never have an argument without drama. That’s why you are now amazed at how calmly he solves the problems with you.
7. HE FIGHTS FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
Perhaps it is the first time that you have experienced this. But it’s true: if a man really loves and respects you, he’ll fight for you.
8. HE IS KIND TO YOU.
You are not used to that either. Suddenly there is someone who is really nice and attentive. It’s not that easy for you. Because you notice what went wrong before.
9. YOU GOT TO AN HONEST MAN.
You have always questioned all the words of your ex-partner. But this man is just so brutally honest that there is nothing left to question.
10. YOU FEEL RESPECTED BY HIM.
He values you as a person and is really interested in the things that you do and that interest you. He wants to show you that he is there for you on an emotional level. He takes care of you.
11. IT CHANGES YOUR LIFE.
This is also a point that you will probably only now realize. People can change your life and make you really happy.
12. A RELATIONSHIP DOESN’T HAVE TO HURT.
Love doesn’t always have to cause pain. Because when you find someone who is good for you, you know what true love means.
13. HE DOESN’T PLAY WITH YOU.
Your messages will be answered normally and you think you shouldn’t be happy too soon. Your plan keeps coming up and you feel uncomfortable because you are not used to it.
14. ALL OF THIS REMINDS YOU OF YOUR PAST, BUT IT DOES NOT REPEAT ITSELF.
His behavior makes you think back on past relationships in your life. But you only remember it because you realize how terrible they were compared to the current relationship. This man is now showing you how it should go.
15. HE UNDERSTANDS YOUR INSECURITY.
He probably senses that you are unsure. But he has patience with you and is still good to you. He doesn’t judge you for it.
16. HE STAYS, EVEN THOUGH YOU SHOW YOUR WORST VERSION OF YOURSELF.
You break down or freak out, and now you probably think that it will leave you in the rain. Wrong thought: this man is there and holding the umbrella. Because he understands that nobody is perfect.
17. HE’S TOTALLY IN LOVE.
Now you know how men behave when they’re totally in love. He returns your feelings and wants to be with you all the time. It should be so!