you have to change the way you think about yourself, how much you value yourself, how you see yourself.
you have to change your environment. You have to eliminate the people who hurt you from your world and build a more comfortable home for you.
you have to change your expectations. You have to start expecting more from those around you and from yourself.
you have to change your attitude. You have to stop dwelling on what could go wrong. You have to stop assuming that something horrible is around the corner.
you have to change your attention. You have to stop spending all your energy on bad people and bad activities.
you have to change your mindset. You have to stop assuming that true love does not exist, commitment does not exist, happiness does not exist. You have to leave some optimism in your life.
you have to change your point of view. You should start looking for silver liners to help you get through the most difficult times.
you have to change your reactions. You have to remember that you are not able to control someone else’s actions, but you have full control over your external reactions.
you have to change your behaviour. You must stop assuming that you are helpless and realize that you have what it takes to improve yourself.
you have to change your worldview. You have to stop assuming that everyone is there to hurt you, everyone will shoot you.
you have to change your routine, get out of your comfort zone, also surprise yourself.
you have to change your idea of success. You must stop viewing yourself as a failure and accept that you have done well.