When you are the girl who is always available to others, you feel very alone. You are a very deep person who has an ocean instead of a heart, but you continue to fall in love with people who are too afraid to swim. You would give everything to others.
You are hurt. My God, you’re hurting yourself. You wonder if someone will give you the support you give to others, you wonder if there is a time when someone asks you how you are doing. And when it doesn’t happen, it’s fine. Find strength in things other than people. Find energy in your loneliness, find hope in your daydreams. You build yourself, tell yourself that you don’t need anyone to save you, that you don’t need anyone’s help to build walls.
But you do it anyway.
You see, sometimes the girl who is always there for everyone needs someone for her. Sometimes the girl who smiles more hurts more. Sometimes the girl who dries other people’s tears comes home and cries late. Sometimes you have to tell the girl who encourages everyone around her that she is appreciated, that it is important; Sometimes he has to be encouraged by himself.
So, if you are the girl who is always there for others, know that your heart is rare. Know that you have the ability to calm people during storms, a wonderful gift that has relieved sore eyes and injured spirits. Know that you give people hope, that you inspire them by recognizing the most overlooked things, that you make people feel wanted, that you make them feel they have a purpose.
However, also remember that you are not invincible. Your heart needs rest. You need some rest. Remember that you don’t have to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders, that you may not be able to save everyone, that you may not be able to heal every injury. Remember that you are worthy of the love that you continue to give to everyone else. Remember, you don’t always have to be strong, you don’t always have to fix the damage. Remember that you can be human, that you can ask for help. that you don’t always have to run away.