One-sided love is not loved. It’s torture.

You are waiting for something that may never arrive. You look at someone who does not see you. You think of someone day and night and you probably will never forget it. You look at your phone and hope that he or she writes you a text message or calls you while calling someone else.

One-sided love is not loved. It is a battlefield.

You fight with your feelings. You fight with your thoughts. You fight with reality. You fight against everything that people tell you and believe your fantasies. You fight against your own intuition. Your gut feeling. Your logic. Your heart. It’s a battle you can not win. A war that can not be ended.

You lose again and again. It’s surrendering to something that will eventually destroy you.

One-sided love is not loved. It breaks your heart.

One gives the other takes. One loves, the other is not even touched. One always hopes for something more, the other avoids the topic altogether. One is ready to do anything to make it work, the other does not mind. One always cries and the other always laughs.

One-sided love is not loved.

One-sided love is not loved. It is self-destruction.

You question your self-esteem every night. You are constantly asking yourself why you are not enough, why you are never taken, why you are never the chosen one. It is to look at yourself and not to like anything about yourself.

You lie in bed thinking about everything you said and done because it must have been something you said. It is to look at yourself and not to like anything about yourself. You lie in bed thinking about everything you said and done because it must have been something you said.

It feels as if you would never be loved because nobody is able to love you back. Nobody you really wanted.

One-sided love is not loved.

It is a crush. It’s in love. It’s an obsession.

I like this idea. But true love is never one-sided. True love is reciprocated. True love is patient. True love is understanding. True love is two people who embark on a wonderful journey with all their ups and downs.

There are two people who willingly choose each other. There are two people who try to accept each other and to love each other’s worst sides. There are two people who want to help each other in illness and health.

It is loyalty. It is confirmation. It is engagement. It is intimacy. It is depth. It’s strength. It is a reason to live longer. It is a reason to believe in life.

True love heals. One-sided love breaks.

True love is the only love you have to look for. One-sided love is anything but love. A poetic term for heartbreak. A poetic term for suffering.

 

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