If you want her, tell her

If you want her, tell her; tell her how you feel about her.

Tell her how you feel about her. Ask her out on an official date. Use the aftershave that you know she loves. Make an effort instead of assuming that if you let her fidget a little more, she’ll like you more.

Don’t make her wonder what you think of her. Don’t let her wonder if she can trust you if you’re worth the risk if you’ll end up breaking her heart. Make it clear to her that you would never hurt her.

Stop playing games because you think that’s exactly what you’re supposed to be doing. Stop casually asking her if she has time to “hang out” over the weekend. Stop making it seem like you don’t care whether you see her or another week will go by without her. Stop holding back for fear of rejection.

Say what you think. If you think she looks good that day, tell her.

If you think she’s funny, tell her. If you want to go out with her, tell her. Don’t hide your opinion. Compliment her. Say the truth.

If you want her, you have to let her know because she has no idea what your mixed signals mean. She’s not sure if you’re actually interested in her or if you’re just flirting for fun. She doesn’t want to be wrong and let her heartbreak.

Even if you think it’s obvious, she probably has no idea what is on your mind, she has no idea what you want from her.

Answer their unsolicited questions. Tell her she looks pretty. Tell her you to enjoy talking to her. Tell her you to want her to be your official friend.

Don’t leave your feelings unspoken. Don’t let confusion arise because if she thinks you are only half interested, she will assume that you are not good enough for her. She wants someone who is 100% ready to devote themselves to her. Someone who would never leave you.

That’s why you have to be brave. Look her in the eye and tell her how you are feeling. She will appreciate your honesty. It will be a refreshing break from all of the guys in their past who are acting hard and refusing to reveal their feelings.

She doesn’t want another almost relationship. She wants to know where you stand from the start, so stop dropping hints that are so subtle that she’ll never pick them up. Stop thinking about to if you ignore that you look cool or you’ll be more desirable. It just makes you look like an awful.

Be the type, to tell the truth, even if it might embarrass you. The guy who isn’t afraid to express his deepest feelings because he’s more willing to do it than a lie. The guy she knows she can trust because you’ve been see-through all along.

If you want her to make sure she knows because she might feel the same way.