If he is the only thing you want, you ignore his flaws and see only the good in him.
You ignore every warning everyone sees except you.
If he’s the only thing you want, every decision you make will be irrational.
You will do absolutely everything to make it work between the two of you. Even if you look ridiculous. Even if you make a fool of yourself.
If he’s the only thing you want, he’ll know.
He’ll outsmart you in every way possible because you allowed him to.
If it is the only thing you want, you build it at the cost of self-destruction and you will actually believe that you are not good enough.
If he is the only thing you want, no other person will interest you anymore and you will no longer give anyone an opportunity to get to know you. Because you really believe that he is the right one, that he has to be by your side ..
If he’s the only thing you want, you’ll fight hard for that relationship.
You will care too much about the relationship.
You will accept much less than you deserve.
Any excuse will always be given.
If he is the only thing you want, then let him control you.
But often the person you want the most is the last one you need.
If he’s the last thing you need, you’ll be hurt and disappointed.
If he’s the last thing you need, you’ll be confused.
If he’s the last thing you need, you’ll find yourself staring at your phone and wondering why he didn’t answer while playing a game and created the rules on his own.
If he’s the last thing you need, you’ll give him as many chances as possible no matter how many times you have to do it.
If he is the last thing you need, you will dance to his pipe, although you do not like it.
If he is the last thing you need, he will guide you and take what he offers because you think it is better than if he does not give you anything.
If he is the last thing you need, you will see the change in your self-image because you keep thinking that you are not good enough for him.
If it is the last thing you need, it will suck out your remaining energy.
He’ll totally exhaust you.
It will completely destroy you.
And you won’t see it that way. You will not recognize it.
In fact, you won’t even notice. But everyone else will.
You will watch your dark circles darken and your smile go away and how everything about you changes by trying hard to force someone to love you.
The hearts of these people will hurt as you ask yourself what you’re doing wrong all the time.
Their hearts will hurt as you tell them another story, in which you describe how he hurt you.
Your hearts will hurt as you watch him help you destroy yourself.
But no matter what they say, they cannot change how you feel about him; but they hate that he changed the way you feel about yourself.
They say that “the thing” between you is toxic, sick and abnormal; but you say that it is love because you really believe with all your heart that it is the right thing.
But I tell you that love is not this Love is not the need to make someone small to feel bigger.
Love has nothing to do with manipulation.
Love has nothing to do with control.
Love has nothing to do with confusion and chaos or with violent feelings like screaming and arguing, where you have to reconcile again and again.
Love is not to end the phone call and feel empty because the person on the other end is not what you need.
Love is not having to say “I love you” to someone just to tell you the same thing back.
You think you need him. You think you can’t live without him. You are addicted to him, just as addicts are addicted to hard drugs.
But don’t forget, every time you long for him, you get weaker. And the more you love him, the sooner it will totally destroy you.