It’s more than opening the doors, pulling chairs out and paying the bills.
It’s more than going out with you and making sure you get home safely.
It is more than the respect he shows for your father and your family.
And it’s even more than if he likes you enough to introduce you to his friends and family.
Do not bind yourself to him until he really proves that he wants you in his life and wants to make you his priority.
Don’t tie yourself to him until you see him sacrifice for you. Commit yourself to him when he will always be there for you when you need him.
If he will change his schedule to make your life easier.
Although he shows small signs of attention, such as making coffee for you before he leaves home while you are sleeping or bringing breakfast to your bed, other things are much more important.
Do not bind yourself to him until he really shows you who he is and is not afraid of it.
Commit to him if he’s not afraid to be vulnerable. He is not afraid to tell you about his past or about the things you need if you have any hope that your relationship will come about.
When he listens to what you say and remembers it.
When he pays attention to small details and notices things.
Don’t tie yourself to him until you get to know all of his pages and know that you still love him. His good or bad mood. Drunk. Angry. Sad. Frustrated when his team loses. Do not bind yourself to him until you see him in every physical form.
And make sure you can show him every side of you.
Even the parts you’re afraid of. The side of you that you hid from the world. The side you may hate about yourself.
Do not bind yourself to him until he has seen all these pages and teaches you how to accept every part of yourself.
Do not commit yourself to him until you realize that he will not change anything about you, even if everyone else says that you have many mistakes.
Let him be the one who tells you that these people are wrong until you start to believe it yourself.
Do not commit yourself to him until you know that he supports you, encourages you, makes you better, and makes you do more. Commit to him when he’s not afraid to tell you when to rest in life, when you’re not working for yourself, or when you’re not doing what you have to do. And while you do this, it doesn’t leave your side.
Don’t tie yourself up until you have someone who is not only your fan but also on your team that helps you get what you want to be. Until you have someone who knows when to lift you, when you fall, but also knows when to stay in the background and let you do your thing.
Don’t commit to him until you know that his word is worth its weight in gold and that the last thing he would ever do is to betray you or change plans
Commit to him when he looks forward to seeing you, talking to you, just being around you.
If he really misses you when you go.
Do not bind yourself to him until you see that he apologizes if he is wrong and does everything possible to do it right.
Commit to him if he wants to know what your day is like. When he calls you and while you’re on the phone, you forget the time.
Do not bind yourself to him until you know that he loves you and is not afraid to say it, even if it is your first time.
Commit to him if he makes you feel like the most beautiful girl in the world because he keeps telling you that.
Do not commit yourself to him until he enters your life and raises the previous standard that you had.
Commit to him when he sees relationship challenges as something that can be overcome together.
Do not bind yourself to him until you know what he wants you in your future, and when you look at yourself you forget and forgive yourself from the past.