Sometimes you just can’t let go, turn the page.
Are you someone who feels trapped in the past and cannot move forward?
If you believe in astrology, your zodiac sign can tell you if you are someone who tends to hang on maybe a little too much or if you are a person who lives without regret and in the moment.
Certainly, the past has a cruel way of coming back to haunt you when you thought you had conquered your demons.
You might then blame yourself and wonder why you can’t move forward.
And then there are the others, who seem to find a way to forget.
So why can’t you? It was so long ago!
Don’t worry, it’s not necessarily your fault: your zodiac sign can affect the way you deal with the past and move on.
Here are the 4 astrological signs that struggle the most to leave the past in the past, in love.
1. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Do you remember, Rose, in Titanic, freezing cold and making this promise to Jack, “I will never give up, Jack, I will never give up…”?
These are the words of Pisces after every love story that ends.
A sign of imagination, wonder and fantasy, you love to dream and tell stories.
For you, hanging on is the ultimate romantic gesture; desperate, of course, but romantic. Everything rather than letting go.
This is why you are often the ones who experience the breakup rather than the ones who initiate it.
Your major problem, aside from not being able to turn the page easily, is that you idealize your romantic relationships.
Even when it is obvious that these have no future and are doomed to failure, you insist.
And you are missing out on better opportunities.
In fact, you are such a shy traveler who loves Paris but would like to see Bali. Can you leave your Parisian paradise without regret to discover a new setting in Bali?
Well yes, scale friends, you often decide to do both: you will take pieces of Paris with you to Bali …
You are collectors who amass memories that are dear to you because you want to feel and experience everything simultaneously.
In fact, loving is accepting that it is more than likely that you still have strong feelings for your ex.
It is quite risky to live a story with you just after a romantic failure because you are open to the principle of second chance, finally third, even fourth, … in short, you understand the idea.
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
You are a sign who always longs for order and wants a structured life.
Regarding your intentions and expectations, you don’t really have a problem making them known to those around you.
That’s why you don’t appreciate the unpleasant surprises of breakups.
Being a very loving astrological sign, you stay true in your relationships and make commitments for life.
Stories of the heart are not just to “pass the time”, you take it very seriously.
So when things don’t go as planned, you are hurt to the max.
Breakups are one of your deepest fears.
When your partner leaves you, it is difficult for you to digest everything.
You will spend your time thinking about what you have done wrong, what else you should or could have done, thus staying stuck in the past for a long time.
3. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
You are ruled by the moon, which represents emotions, feelings, memories and longing.
We are therefore not surprised to find you in this top 4.
The moon does not seem to influence only the tides concerning you: you tend to live stories of endless ruptures and rework.
Certainly the best actresses in the zodiac, you can claim to have moved on, but the truth is, it’s quite the opposite.
The emotional baggage of your previous relationships follows you into each of your new stories, creating a vicious cycle of cascading failures.
You find it difficult to take the time to be alone and to heal after a heartache.
This is because, like the sign of Taurus, you like what is familiar to you.
And on top of that, you’re the kind of person who loves the idea of being in love.
This does not mean that you will fall under the spell of the first comer, on the contrary. You have relatively high standards and expectations when it comes to love and romance.
The fall is all the more painful.
4. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Very cautious, even suspicious, you are known to have incredibly high standards and expectations.
Like princesses in their inaccessible towers, you don’t let just anyone in.
You spend a tremendous amount of time trying to figure out whether someone is really worth taking a chance or not.
It makes you people who once you think you’ve found Prince Charming ZE will never let him go.
And that’s a big deal. Because when things go wrong in a relationship, you always choose to hang on to them because you’re too afraid that you won’t find love again.
Your breakups are the most intense and overwhelming of the entire zodiac.
So much so that mourning in all its forms is exceedingly difficult for you.
You always celebrate the memory of the past, no matter if it was good or bad.
Clearly, you never let go of what has disappeared.