You always have to choose to be with the person who will fight for you. It is not enough that you are in a relationship with someone who will only tolerate being with you.
After all, it’s not just about being in love. It’s not enough just to be with someone who just allows you to be with them. Admittedly, they must actually want you to be in their life.
It is not enough that you are the only person fighting for the relationship. Frankly, it will always take the power and effort of two people to make a relationship a success. And unfortunately, you have to leave if it doesn’t meet the requirements.
You need to be with someone who makes a conscious choice to stay with you every single day you are together as a couple. You also need a person who will always consider you an integral part of their day.
It must always be important to take time for you. After all, we only really spend time with the people who are most important to us. And if they don’t spend as much time with you, then you know that there is an inherent problem there that needs to be addressed.
Basically, two people who love each other should never get tired of getting along. If you love each other, you would always be thrilled by the thought of being together.
You have to be with someone who will always choose to be with you. You have to have someone who won’t leave you in the relationship doubtful and scared.
Frankly, it is hard to find someone who can give you a feeling of comfort and ease in this life. It will never be easy to find someone you can trust with all your heart and without shame.
Therefore, if you can find that person in your life, you should never let go of them. If you have someone who loves you in a way that no one else does, you should always show your appreciation for that individual.
As you make your way through your relationship, you should always expect some good times and some bad times. It will never be a smooth ride. You will not always be happy and joyful. It is important that you can anticipate many rough spots and hard strains in your relationship.
That is why you will want a partner who is able to hold your hand all the way. You want to be with someone who will always be consistent with you, no matter how much the conditions or environment may change.
You want a partner you know will be waiting for you when you get home.
You should only be with someone who will never shy away from showing you their love consistently. You also want to find someone who will push, motivate and inspire you to pursue your dreams with ruthless dedication.
You want to be with someone who will almost feel like a safety net. He must be able to give you the feeling that you are free to pursue your greatest dreams and most important goals without being afraid.
You want to be with someone who will always lift you up and treat you with the greatest respect. It should never get in the way of you and your goals.
It is not an easy task to find such a person, but you must not give up. For your sake, you have to value yourself. You have to love yourself enough to require proper treatment. You have to fight for someone to fight for you.
And if at the end of the day it’s not what you get from someone, you have to be ready to leave. You have to be strong enough to be alone. It’s terrible to agree with someone who won’t treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Trust that you will eventually find this person in your life. You have to be able to believe that you are worthy of this fairytale kind of love.
And above all, you have to believe that this love will finally come for you. The first step to making all of your dreams come true is to believe it first. Once you’ve got that covered, all you have to do is make the decision to fight for that love too.
In life, only the things that we believe are worth fighting are important to us. Every man, woman and everybody in between deserves someone who loves them so much that he or she would be ready to fight for them with their hands and feet.
It’s not just about finding love that is worth fighting for; it’s about finding a love that we have to fight for.
This is the part that most people completely overlook: every loving relationship must be fought for. It’s the nature of relationships.
All relationships require work. Fighting for love doesn’t always mean removing other admirers or making incredible sacrifices in the name of love.
Often it’s just about making that extra effort, week after week, for the rest of your life together.
It is not a glorious struggle, but it is a struggle that has been fought for a lifetime. And when it comes to war, life is a long time.
Having someone willing to fight for you, protect you, and even fight if necessary is exactly why people partner.
We seem to have this anchored in us and literally need a partner who – at least we think so – would fight for us if it matters.
Not even fighting for us with fists, but with the choices they make, how they plan our lives, how they forgive and do everything they can to keep the relationship together.
Everything else feels like abandonment. Nobody deserves to be left, especially in times of need.