Does he regret losing me? This is the most common question every woman asks after a breakup. In fact, some of us are not even asking, we take this question and turn it into a vow.
We swear to God that he will regret having lost us. It’s more of a vengeful instinct than a real feeling. When we are rejected, we only feel pain and humiliation.
We ponder and wonder how it got to the point where we are right now. That can get pretty frustrating.
In one moment you have a best friend by your side and the next you are all alone. The next moment this best friend is no longer your friend. His title has become an ex-boyfriend.
He will regret having lost a good wife like you. And I’ll tell you why! Find out how to know when this moment will come when he will miss you again.
HE OFTEN CALLS YOU
Although he broke up with you, he is still in touch with you. This can be interpreted in two ways.
First, he may not really have any romantic feelings for you, but he wants to be friends. He wants to keep what he had alive and turn it into friendship. Second, it is very likely that he really regrets his decision and so he calls and writes to you.
The only way you can find out what he’s up to is by looking closely at his behavior. Why is he calling you, for example? How often does he call you? Is he calling you right after your breakup or a few weeks later?
The last question is especially important.
The time he calls has a big impact on what’s really going on in his head. For example, if he calls you right after your breakup or a day or even a week later, he probably feels guilty.
HE KNOWS HE MESSED IT UP WITH A GOOD WOMAN
Sometimes men do not know how to appreciate something they have. At this point, he has no idea that he will regret the premature decision he makes. After he separates himself from you, he will remember how much time he has spent with you.
For some reason, he gave up everything that you had, and now he mourns for the relationship he had with you. Maybe the timing was not right for him, maybe he was too inexperienced to invest his time and love in you.
Whatever the reason, and it is possible that he did not even have a reason, he cries over the true love he once had.
HE BECAME A LONER
Over time, he has retreated into his own life. Whether in real life or social media life, he tends to control situations all by himself. What does that mean? He keeps away from people and does everything he can, all by himself.
And why does he do that?
The simplest explanation and the one that speaks for you is that he wants his ex back. He decides to be alone, to bring a message into your subconscious that he is available to you to return to him.
NOW HE KNOWS YOU CAN DO BETTER
“I want you back” is exactly his thoughts. When he was with you, he did not appreciate you. He took you for granted because he did not think you were that special.
However, when he started to feed other women, the skewer turned around. Suddenly, he realized that each time he met someone is not good enough, not nearly as perfect as you are. Now he regrets making that terrible decision to break up with you.
HE IS OFTEN DRUNK
Something bothers him and he drowns his worries with alcohol. He is totally crazy and talks to strange women in bars. Of course, his friends would say he’s moving on and trying to find someone because he’s completely over you.
Men who drink uninterruptedly and flirt with other women every night are men who are deeply unhappy. He tries to fill the void he has from the moment he breaks up with you.
HIS SOCIAL MEDIA POSTS ARE SUSPICIOUS
His Facebook posts, his tweets or his Instagram pictures should look like he has the best time ever. Do not fall for it! The harsh reality is that he does not have a good time, he just wants you and everyone else to think that. The truth is that he is hurt and regrets having ever let you go.
HE WILL GET INFORMATION ABOUT YOU FROM YOUR BEST FRIEND
He is looking for your best friend and not only for her, but for all the people you know and are around you. To convince himself that he really regrets his stupid decision to leave you.
After realizing the signs that he regrets leaving you, you can think about what to do next. If it turns out that he really regrets that he left, your decision is the most important in this scenario. If he really wants you back, he should show it.
Is it worth it for you to come back, or will you continue living alone on your own? This decision is entirely up to you. You should take enough time to find out if you two still deserve a chance.