You are exhausted I can see it in the dark circles and the way you move your body across the street. You are tired. And all the trouble for what? For someone who can’t see your efforts and someone who doesn’t care how hard it is for you.
You tried to improve his life and fulfil every wish he had, but what about you? Look at your bones that tear your skin. All because you haven’t been able to eat properly for days. You wanted to do so much for him that you stopped taking care of yourself. But let’s face it, he takes, takes and takes. He never gives anything back and everything you do is desperate to grieve.
When you met, you saw something special in him. As if he was finally the type who could change your world and give you the courage to believe in love again. You had been injured far too often and you thought he would pick up the fragments and wear them with respect and appreciation.
But if you look back at your relationship now, is it really what he did?
He told you that he gave you so much and that you owe him something in return. You owe him your body and obedience. You owe him dinner and then sex. You owe him the silence and that you have no tears in his eyes because he did so much for you.
But girls, open your eyes! You don’t owe him anything. You owe yourself some respect and love that he could never give you because he was too busy taking everything you gave him. You gave yourself unconditionally to him and what for? Why did you give up everything to make him feel good? With nothing, he showed you that he deserved it.
He manipulated you with his words and charm, making you think he was doing all the work to keep the relationship healthy and strong. But with his poisonous fingers in it, he simply poisoned your heart. He just blinded you.
However, you are not the one responsible for it. You are just a woman in love and we women tend to surrender fully to love. We love to love. That is our biggest curse. There was no sign of his bad behaviour at the beginning, so you fell in love with him more and more every day, but he won’t be the one to return your love because he doesn’t care if you get hurt, He just wants HE to feel comfortable.
So, my darling, get up and show him who you are.
Get away from him! He is not the right one for you and he will never be the right choice for any other woman. He is too selfish to love. He only loves himself.
I know you can hardly believe me, but one day you will be really loved. You will be worshipped by a real man someday. You will be loved by a man who appreciates your efforts, the blood, sweat and tears that you put into the relationship. You will never have to cry again. But to meet this amazing man, you have to let go of your current partner – the partner who does nothing but take advantage of you.
See your current relationship from a third-person perspective and see it rationally. All you can see is that you have been mistreated and misunderstood all the time.
It is time for you to start taking care of yourself. Be ready to do anything to get out of this terrible situation.
My love, love yourself. If there is one thing you should know that I want to make clear to you, is that you have to love yourself more than anyone else in the world.