Engaging in a relationship is just one piece of the puzzle. To make it last and to keep a man interested in a relationship is something else.
No, you do not have to change completely (unless you feel the need), to pretend to be someone you are not, or to bend in half to please him.
There is no need for tactics and games of mind. It could do more harm than good.
There are much simpler and more effective things that will make your man stick to you like glue. If you want to know more, keep reading.
There are some secrets that could help us and shed light on how men think, because no matter how many times we hear that they are simple creatures, they have the gift to complicate things.
So, let’s start:
1. Give him the desire to be part of your life
The first rule of relationship should be: Have a life outside of your relationship!
Most often, women in love leave their desires, dreams, hobbies, friends and aspirations, making man the center of their universe. In itself, it’s the recipe for disaster.
By neglecting yourself, you will make a man do exactly the same thing.
If you are constantly listening to him, and you live your life to please him, he will take it for granted and will not appreciate it.
You have to spend a lot of time with your spouse, but that does not mean spending your life on it.
Create a life you are proud of. Take time for your friends, try something new and grow the old things you love.
This will allow him to appreciate you more and he will make efforts to be part of your life that is amazing.
2. Be confident (or at least try harder to be confident)
Yes, I know it’s a cliché, but it does not make it any less true. Trust and self-esteem are the keys to turning your life into a paradise and having it stick to you like glue.
Men have a sixth sense when it comes to self-esteem. They can feel it and they find it to be one of the greatest feminine virtues.
To see a woman who is down to earth, who knows what she is worth and who is not afraid to show her off is extremely attractive.
Safe women are arrogant, playful, playful, seductive and easy to mix with, so that confidence becomes their main tool of seduction.
So, if you miss out on this, do something to improve your self-confidence to ensure a better relationship.
3. If you relax a little, you will get better results.
It’s as if something were embedded in our feminine DNA that makes us strive hard to get another person’s attention.
We give too much, we care too much, we strive too much, and sooner or later it falls on us.
What we have to do is meet someone halfway. Make equal efforts.
Stop pushing, pulling and forcing; let things evolve naturally. It’s simple, right?
4. Let go of it from time to time
Understand that the male brain is different from the female brain and you may have disagreements.
Your logic is different and you will not be able to see things the same way all the time.
Remember that it is not necessary to repair all wrongs. Choose your battles wisely and defend the things that are important to you.
Do not allow arguments to break out because of small things like high toilet bowl or bins; all this is not worth spending your energy.
5. Be playful (literally)
The truth is that – without wishing to offend those who accidentally fall on it – men are sometimes like twelve-year-old boys wrapped in the body of an adult man.
They play video games, engage in an activity or embark on a brand new hobby that makes absolutely no sense to you, unexpectedly, and you stay there, without knowing how to act.
The best thing to do is play the game, find common interests in all of this, or things to keep you busy as he pursues his kid dreams.
To annoy it will only ruin everything – playing the game is much better.
6. Give him compliments
Although most men would never admit it, they love compliments. They want to know what you think and how you perceive them.
They want to know that they can seduce you with a simple smile, no matter how long you know each other.
So compliment him, tell him that he’s cute, sweet, s*xy, and all that you really think at that moment.
Do not hold back. Contrary to belief, men need as much affection and attention as women.
Another helpful tip that will work for both of you is to be grateful and let him know when you appreciate something he has done.
No matter if he just took out the trash, it means you will not have to! Tell him he’s great; it does not cost you anything, but it will mean a lot to him.
7. Kisses, hugs and tenderness
Physical touch is important, even on days when you are not in the mood to make love. It creates attachment with a sense of security and belonging.
It is the intimacy carried to a higher level and it is important to maintain it.
Do not let your daily obligations prevent you from kissing you often, hugging and cuddling until you fall asleep watching TV after a tiring day.
8. Shake things up a bit
The rut is big – it’s known and comfortable – but it can easily become super boring and separate you from each other.
So, make sure to shake things up a bit by introducing something new.
Organize a date, make a joke, buy sexy lingerie.
From time to time, the change will be like a breath of fresh air that will make your relationship fun and remind you why you fell in love at first.
9. Make sure he knows that you believe in him and that you support him
Be his support system. Tell him to take a chance if you think he is on a good track.
Make sure he knows that even if he fails in something, you will be there.
He will never ask for your support, but that does not mean he does not need it. He just thinks it’s not manly to ask.
By doing these 9 simple things, you build your friendship and create a more intimate relationship with your spouse. You get physically and mentally closer to him.
He will naturally want to be with you more often, confide in you and spend quality time with you.
He will never want to leave you too long because he will enjoy your company so much.
Most often, we forget the little things in life that make the difference.