Love is the most magical thing we can experience in life. But being in love and being in a relationship are two different things. We can be in a relationship with someone we don’t love. The difference between love and infatuation can be hard to tell, even if you can feel it inside. Here are some signs that you are not in love with your partner
That’s why we’re always looking for someone to share our life with. Someone who accepts and loves us for who we are, despite our weaknesses and imperfections. Someone to grow with by sharing the best and worst moments of our lives.
Love drives us to commit to someone and be in a relationship, even though the ride can be bumpy at times. Love requires that we be patient, compassionate, understanding and supportive. Love requires that we have the strength to let go of the person we love when the time comes.
Is it love or something else?
How do you feel when you are with your partner?
are you feeling excited Do you feel anxious ? Or do you feel calm and peaceful? The feelings your partner inspires in you are often an indicator of whether you are in love or just doting on them.
Our need to search for love often makes us desperate and even afraid of being lonely. This can lead us to confuse lust with love. Being in love and being in a relationship are two different things. We can be in a relationship with someone we don’t love.
Even if your relationship feels euphoric at first, you can quickly realize that it might not be love after all. Sometimes the difference between love and infatuation is hard to tell, even if you can feel it inside.
Confused?
In this article, we’ll talk about some signs that you’ve never really been in love with your partner… Now let’s look at some signs that what they’re feeling about you isn’t love, it’s infatuation.
9 Signs You’re Not In Love With Your Partner
1. Things move fast in your relationship
You’ve only known each other for a short time, but you’re strongly attracted to your partner. You just know that he/she is THE ONE. But love at first sight often means infatuation at first sight.
Falling in love is instant and quick. True love, on the other hand, takes time to grow.
If you barely know your partner but still want to spend most of your time with him or her, chances are you’re not in love with him or her. Infatuation causes chemical reactions in the brain that release norepinephrine and dopamine, making you feel good and excited.
Love grows gradually and you feel more and more attached to your partner the more you know about them. Love can be slow, but it makes up for it with genuine feelings, caring, shared memories, values, shared goals, and authenticity.
2. You feel uncomfortable around your partner
You don’t feel confident enough to share your most vulnerable thoughts and feelings with your partner because you feel insecure about your self-expression. You either feel like you don’t deserve it or you’re trapped in a cage. You build a wall around yourself and keep yourself from revealing all your secrets to him.
However, when you are in love, you feel perfectly comfortable around her. You are not afraid to speak your most authentic self because you know that despite your imperfections, your partner will always love and appreciate you. Love makes you not ashamed to be who you really are, because love is free from judgment and criticism.
3. You want a “perfect” partner
You demand perfection from your partner because you cannot accept them for who they are. It’s not love, it’s lust. When you’re infatuated with someone, you want him or her to be perfect so you can show him or her off as a prize to increase your social status. When they don’t meet your expectations, you become annoyed, upset, dissatisfied, and angry with them, leading to toxic arguments. Projecting your desires, fantasies, or desires onto them is a recipe for disaster.
Love, on the other hand, is based on acceptance and understanding. Love makes you see the beauty in your partner, regardless of his or her many weaknesses. When you love yourself, you accept him as he is without wanting to change him. You don’t pressure them to be who they are and you want to be with them even when they’re down.
4. There is a distance you cannot fill
You don’t know it when you’re feeling emotionally disconnected from your partner, which is usually because you’re uncomfortable around them. You talk but you never communicate with him or her. Your conversations feel mundane and transactional. Either you or your partner are emotionally unavailable and the other usually doesn’t care much about this behavior.
You seem to have grown apart over time and the initial spark has died. You would rather spend your time with your friends or with yourself than with your partner. You don’t really go on dates anymore and sometimes make excuses to avoid them.
But love doesn’t make excuses. When you’re in love, you’re never too busy for your partner. You will even make time to be there for him. No obstacles or excuses should separate you from the person you love.
Yes, there are challenges in love, but there is no distance here. People who love each other know how to overcome challenges, seek new adventures and experiences, bond and grow together. So if you’re making excuses to avoid your partner, then you’re probably not in love.
5. You don’t think about him
Most of the time you don’t think about your partner. While it’s not necessary to think about him all the time, it can be a problem if he doesn’t cross your mind at all on a daily basis. You don’t want to know what your partner is doing, where or how he is, or you wish to be with him. You don’t really care what he or she is doing because you’re more concerned with your own life. If you hardly think about the person you claim to love, then it’s not real love.
When we’re in love, we feel a little attached to our partner and worry about them. We think of them from time to time because they are an important part of our lives. It is not necessary that you dream about them all the time, but you miss them all day. Sometimes you address her in conversation.
Even though you want to spend time with your friends and enjoy some alone time, you still look forward to spending time with your special someone. If you don’t miss her even though you’re busy, then you’re not in love.
6. You feel stressed and anxious
Your relationship feels heavy and leads to more negative and difficult feelings than positive ones. Instead of feeling better with the right person, you feel stressed, nervous, and full of anxiety.
Since you are easily annoyed and dissatisfied with them, the relationship feels like a burden. You feel confused and horrible and the anxiety overcomes you. You feel like they’re the wrong people for you or that you can’t trust them. It can even manifest itself physically, leading to stomach pain, insomnia, fatigue, and other physical ailments.
Love shouldn’t feel like this. Love is not painful or full of drama. Love shouldn’t feel forced. Love is full of passion, madness, contentment and inner peace. She makes you happy and excited when you are with them, even if you sometimes disagree. Love and stress definitely don’t go together. If your intuition tells you that this relationship isn’t right for you, then it probably isn’t.
7. Your relationship is pointless
Being with your partner feels like an uphill struggle on a daily basis. The relationship feels forced and superficial. It has no meaning or depth. Neither of you feels that you have to make an effort to strengthen your relationship. Everything about the relationship feels superficial and you feel like you don’t know your partner that well.
Deep, unconditional love should never feel superficial. True love has many layers that you peel off with every feeling, experience and moment you share with your partner. And when you get to the core, you can find new meaning in life and feel a real connection. Love can give meaning to your life and inspire you to be better.
8. You are looking for options
If you don’t see a future with your partner and aren’t ready to commit, then it’s probably not love. You look at other options and are attracted to others. You may even fantasize about other people. You haven’t deleted the dating apps on your smartphone yet because you want to keep your options open. Although you may feel guilty, you consider cheating on your partner and the thought strikes you as intriguing and exciting.
When you are in love, all you have on your mind is your partner. Yes, it’s okay to look at attractive people, but when you start fantasizing about them, there’s a problem. Love thrives on loyalty and fidelity. She is honest and pure even on the worst of days. Love doesn’t make you insecure, guilty, or excited about infidelity. If you are looking for other options then you are dissatisfied and unhappy in a relationship. cowards cheat. Lovers cheat.
9. Leaving is easy
If the thought of breaking up with your partner is easy for you, then you don’t really love them. If in your relationship you have been out of touch with him/her, silenced him/her, or even ghosted him/her without harm, then you are in the relationship because you are afraid of being alone. It’s easy for you to distance yourself from, forget about, or even abandon your partner. Breaking up and moving on is an effortless decision for you, and you feel like you have a better option waiting for you.
However, it can be difficult to break up with true love. A breakup can feel devastating and affect you personally. When you are in love, relationships can last a lifetime. But since love isn’t a guarantee, a breakup is a real possibility. And if the thought of losing your partner doesn’t scare you, then you’re not in love.
So do you love your partner? Or do you love the idea of being in love? If any of these signs apply to you, it’s time to take notice. If you are not happy in a relationship, then it is better to leave it so true love can come into your life.
We would like to know about your thoughts and experiences with true love and relationships. Feel free to let us know what you think below.
Love is the most magical thing we can experience in life. But being in love and being in a relationship are two different things. We can be in a relationship with someone we don’t love. The difference between love and infatuation can be hard to tell, even if you can feel it inside. Here are some signs that you are not in love with your partner
That’s why we’re always looking for someone to share our life with. Someone who accepts and loves us for who we are, despite our weaknesses and imperfections. Someone to grow with by sharing the best and worst moments of our lives.
Love drives us to commit to someone and be in a relationship, even though the ride can be bumpy at times. Love requires that we be patient, compassionate, understanding and supportive. Love requires that we have the strength to let go of the person we love when the time comes.
Is it love or something else?
How do you feel when you are with your partner?
are you feeling excited Do you feel anxious ? Or do you feel calm and peaceful? The feelings your partner inspires in you are often an indicator of whether you are in love or just doting on them.
Our need to search for love often makes us desperate and even afraid of being lonely. This can lead us to confuse lust with love. Being in love and being in a relationship are two different things. We can be in a relationship with someone we don’t love.
Even if your relationship feels euphoric at first, you can quickly realize that it might not be love after all. Sometimes the difference between love and infatuation is hard to tell, even if you can feel it inside.
Confused?
In this article, we’ll talk about some signs that you’ve never really been in love with your partner… Now let’s look at some signs that what they’re feeling about you isn’t love, it’s infatuation.
9 Signs You’re Not In Love With Your Partner
1. Things move fast in your relationship
You’ve only known each other for a short time, but you’re strongly attracted to your partner. You just know that he/she is THE ONE. But love at first sight often means infatuation at first sight.
Falling in love is instant and quick. True love, on the other hand, takes time to grow.
If you barely know your partner but still want to spend most of your time with him or her, chances are you’re not in love with him or her. Infatuation causes chemical reactions in the brain that release norepinephrine and dopamine, making you feel good and excited.
Love grows gradually and you feel more and more attached to your partner the more you know about them. Love can be slow, but it makes up for it with genuine feelings, caring, shared memories, values, shared goals, and authenticity.
2. You feel uncomfortable around your partner
You don’t feel confident enough to share your most vulnerable thoughts and feelings with your partner because you feel insecure about your self-expression. You either feel like you don’t deserve it or you’re trapped in a cage. You build a wall around yourself and keep yourself from revealing all your secrets to him.
However, when you are in love, you feel perfectly comfortable around her. You are not afraid to speak your most authentic self because you know that despite your imperfections, your partner will always love and appreciate you. Love makes you not ashamed to be who you really are, because love is free from judgment and criticism.
3. You want a “perfect” partner
You demand perfection from your partner because you cannot accept them for who they are. It’s not love, it’s lust. When you’re infatuated with someone, you want him or her to be perfect so you can show him or her off as a prize to increase your social status. When they don’t meet your expectations, you become annoyed, upset, dissatisfied, and angry with them, leading to toxic arguments. Projecting your desires, fantasies, or desires onto them is a recipe for disaster.
Love, on the other hand, is based on acceptance and understanding. Love makes you see the beauty in your partner, regardless of his or her many weaknesses. When you love yourself, you accept him as he is without wanting to change him. You don’t pressure them to be who they are and you want to be with them even when they’re down.
4. There is a distance you cannot fill
You don’t know it when you’re feeling emotionally disconnected from your partner, which is usually because you’re uncomfortable around them. You talk but you never communicate with him or her. Your conversations feel mundane and transactional. Either you or your partner are emotionally unavailable and the other usually doesn’t care much about this behavior.
You seem to have grown apart over time and the initial spark has died. You would rather spend your time with your friends or with yourself than with your partner. You don’t really go on dates anymore and sometimes make excuses to avoid them.
But love doesn’t make excuses. When you’re in love, you’re never too busy for your partner. You will even make time to be there for him. No obstacles or excuses should separate you from the person you love.
Yes, there are challenges in love, but there is no distance here. People who love each other know how to overcome challenges, seek new adventures and experiences, bond and grow together. So if you’re making excuses to avoid your partner, then you’re probably not in love.
5. You don’t think about him
Most of the time you don’t think about your partner. While it’s not necessary to think about him all the time, it can be a problem if he doesn’t cross your mind at all on a daily basis. You don’t want to know what your partner is doing, where or how he is, or you wish to be with him. You don’t really care what he or she is doing because you’re more concerned with your own life. If you hardly think about the person you claim to love, then it’s not real love.
When we’re in love, we feel a little attached to our partner and worry about them. We think of them from time to time because they are an important part of our lives. It is not necessary that you dream about them all the time, but you miss them all day. Sometimes you address her in conversation.
Even though you want to spend time with your friends and enjoy some alone time, you still look forward to spending time with your special someone. If you don’t miss her even though you’re busy, then you’re not in love.
6. You feel stressed and anxious
Your relationship feels heavy and leads to more negative and difficult feelings than positive ones. Instead of feeling better with the right person, you feel stressed, nervous, and full of anxiety.
Since you are easily annoyed and dissatisfied with them, the relationship feels like a burden. You feel confused and horrible and the anxiety overcomes you. You feel like they’re the wrong people for you or that you can’t trust them. It can even manifest itself physically, leading to stomach pain, insomnia, fatigue, and other physical ailments.
Love shouldn’t feel like this. Love is not painful or full of drama. Love shouldn’t feel forced. Love is full of passion, madness, contentment and inner peace. She makes you happy and excited when you are with them, even if you sometimes disagree. Love and stress definitely don’t go together. If your intuition tells you that this relationship isn’t right for you, then it probably isn’t.
7. Your relationship is pointless
Being with your partner feels like an uphill struggle on a daily basis. The relationship feels forced and superficial. It has no meaning or depth. Neither of you feels that you have to make an effort to strengthen your relationship. Everything about the relationship feels superficial and you feel like you don’t know your partner that well.
Deep, unconditional love should never feel superficial. True love has many layers that you peel off with every feeling, experience and moment you share with your partner. And when you get to the core, you can find new meaning in life and feel a real connection. Love can give meaning to your life and inspire you to be better.
8. You are looking for options
If you don’t see a future with your partner and aren’t ready to commit, then it’s probably not love. You look at other options and are attracted to others. You may even fantasize about other people. You haven’t deleted the dating apps on your smartphone yet because you want to keep your options open. Although you may feel guilty, you consider cheating on your partner and the thought strikes you as intriguing and exciting.
When you are in love, all you have on your mind is your partner. Yes, it’s okay to look at attractive people, but when you start fantasizing about them, there’s a problem. Love thrives on loyalty and fidelity. She is honest and pure even on the worst of days. Love doesn’t make you insecure, guilty, or excited about infidelity. If you are looking for other options then you are dissatisfied and unhappy in a relationship. cowards cheat. Lovers cheat.
9. Leaving is easy
If the thought of breaking up with your partner is easy for you, then you don’t really love them. If in your relationship you have been out of touch with him/her, silenced him/her, or even ghosted him/her without harm, then you are in the relationship because you are afraid of being alone. It’s easy for you to distance yourself from, forget about, or even abandon your partner. Breaking up and moving on is an effortless decision for you, and you feel like you have a better option waiting for you.
However, it can be difficult to break up with true love. A breakup can feel devastating and affect you personally. When you are in love, relationships can last a lifetime. But since love isn’t a guarantee, a breakup is a real possibility. And if the thought of losing your partner doesn’t scare you, then you’re not in love.
So do you love your partner? Or do you love the idea of being in love? If any of these signs apply to you, it’s time to take notice. If you are not happy in a relationship, then it is better to leave it so true love can come into your life.
We would like to know about your thoughts and experiences with true love and relationships. Feel free to let us know what you think below.