Falling in love, is the easiest part. But when things get complicated and you have to be honest, men use crappy means to let you know they want to get out of there.
If you have already begun to wonder what has suddenly happened with your boyfriend, you are in the right place.
There are men who begin to behave like shit when they want to break up, but who do not have the balls to say it.
Their mind is determined to break up and they begin to behave like strangers and take a distance to do it for them.
They are cowardly, and instead of frankly confronting their feelings, they will resort to these crappy things to let you know subtly that they are no longer yours.
1. He holds you guilty for the tensions in your relationship
Things have gotten worse and it is obvious who is the culprit. But no, Mr. Perfect is not able to blame for his really crappy actions, so instead he points to you.
He is the one who has distanced himself completely from you, but he starts accusing you of doing the same thing.
It is he who has suddenly become mysterious and evasive, but he insists that you are the ones who are hiding things from him.
Whatever he does, he tries to put that on your back. He does not have the balls of at least being sincere and real with you, so he resorts to the lowest of the range.
2. He treats you crazy when you denounce him for his behavior
It’s the easiest way out. Instead of accepting his role in this crappy show, he calls you crazy for suggesting that he does something wrong.
When men do not want to stay, it’s the easiest thing to do.
To insult you and not to mince words is his way of telling you to discharge him from his duties as a boyfriend.
His foot is already halfway to the door, so be kind to him and say goodbye. You do not need an immature boy anyway!
3. He starts to whine as soon as he does not agree with something
The truth is that men like to be kind and tender towards their ladies. They love to make them feel pampered and special. And rightly so!
But when a man has no problem complaining and whining in front of his girlfriend, it means that he clearly does not try to convince her.
Yes, it’s really sad and unhappy (because you deserve someone who will treat you like the queen you are), but it’s also a hidden blessing.
Basically, he does not care enough to act nicely and kindly with you so you can put him out and focus on what really matters.
4. He makes plans with his friends without even telling you
He goes out as much as he wants and as long as he wants, whether you know it or not. He does not talk to you about his projects and he does not send you an SMS when he is outside.
He’s just doing his own thing and you’re not sure what’s going on. For you, he is still your boyfriend, but for him, this is no longer the case.
He wants to withdraw from the relationship and that’s why he acts as if he were single. This is what he aspires to become and that is why he does not inform you more about his projects. In his head, you are no longer his girlfriend.
5. He promises you something and does not keep his promise
He became a huge disappointment. You make projects that excite you and it cancels at the last minute. No explanation, no real reason, but it’s canceled.
He tells you he’s going to get your laundry from the laundry or pick you up on the way, but he’s not doing it. His word does not mean anything anymore and he does not even want to explain himself.
In his head, you will not be his girlfriend for a long time, and so it’s no use being a good boyfriend. It is no longer effort and it really shows.
6. It ends all conversations about the future
If you even think of talking about marriage and children, he turns off any conversation. He thinks the marriage is fearful and he is not at all clear about what he wants in his future.
He refuses to say anything about it and you can see that nothing to talk about makes him anxious.
Suddenly, the guy you fell in love with is only a shadow of himself.
This guy is just trying to find a way out of his commitment and he does not care how crap it looks.
7. He flirts openly with other girls in public
He does not even try to hide it or deny it. He smiles at all the s*xy girls who pass by him and speaks to them at the same time.
Of course, he’s totally downplaying it and could even pretend he’s just friendly, but you know it’s a lie.
He tries to make you see how bad it is for you to break up with him. He would like you to no longer love him and wonder what you saw in him.
8. It takes time to answer your text messages and it does not even call
At this point, it’s really obvious what that means. A man who loves you, wants to be with you and appreciates you, responds to your messages.
He also calls you and makes sure to send you text messages during the day.
But this man has become a ghost. You can feel it slip away text by texting, missed call by missed call.
Every day you realize it a little more, but you do not want to admit it.
Very expensive, it’s only a waste of time. Leave this idiot immature to someone of his level and find a guy who will respect you enough to tell you what he feels in front.
Nobody can guarantee you that it will be perfect, but it can not be more petty than that.