One thing that narcissists, gamers and all other manipulators are very good at is taking people for granted.
It is in their nature (most of the time) to think only of themselves and to put their needs ahead of those of others.
It is in their nature to expect that you will continue to give yourself completely to them without receiving anything in return.
The word reciprocity simply does not exist in their vocabulary, while women are exactly the opposite.
We give them everything we have, see more, while deliberately depriving ourselves of happiness, so as not to be taken for granted.
And that’s why it’s time for you to take things in hand and make him regret not having appreciated everything you did for him!
It is time for you to demand respect and to make him regret not treating you the way you deserve, and here are the 6 ways that will help you achieve that.
6 act to make him regret taking you for granted
1. Make him recognize his bullshit
When something annoys you, tell him! It’s that simple. Do not remain silent and do not ignore his bad words or actions, whatever happens.
Women have been silent for too long and it’s time to start talking!
If you know that his behavior is selfish and he is not fair, tell him.
Tell him about his bullshit in the face so he knows you’re not a fool and you will not be indifferent to his abuse. You owe it to yourself.
2. Stop doing everything for him
And for God’s sake, stop bending over backward to make him happy when you see he’s not trying to do the same for you.
Let him know that you are no longer the same person who gives himself completely for him.
When he sees that you have changed, he will realize that it may be because of him.
You may have stopped doing what you used to do because you’re fed up with not appreciating it. This is the only way for him to realize the error of his selfish nature.
3. Set rules
The most important thing is to make rules and stick to them strictly.
If you are not satisfied with the way he treats you, set rules that will tell him you will not tolerate his bullshit anymore.
When he sees that you have limits and you will not accept his bullshit, he will know that it is time to change or he will lose you.
Protect yourself and your own happiness because you deserve to be its priority and not an option.
You deserve to be treated the same as others.
4. Let him know that you’re fine without him
You must make sure that he knows that he is not the center of the universe and that your world does not revolve around him.
Letting him know that you are doing fine without him will make him realize that you also have other priorities.
Having fun without him is the best thing you can do for yourself right now.
So, do not waste time trying to find something to stop him from taking you for granted.
Live your life now! And he will begin to fear that if he continues to treat you like this, he could lose the best thing he has ever had.
5. Always keep your dignity
Never run after him. Whatever happens, know that it is not your fault and that it is not up to you to go out of their way to get their attention or, even worse, to believe that you should change.
The only thing you should do is keep your head up and not worry about him until he starts to give you signs that he is determined to change himself.
Walk proudly, speak proudly, and refuse to receive anything other than what you deserve.
6. Tell him that if he does not appreciate what he has, someone else will
Give him time to prove to himself that he is willing to make an effort and work on his behavior towards you.
And if he still does not do anything, tell him that if he is not ready to appreciate what he has, someone else will surely do it.
If he does not answer your calls, do not call him anymore!
If he is not there for you when you need him most, DO NOT be there for him!
If it does not make an effort, DO NOT wait another second.
You should never let him believe that you will dance to his tune whatever happens.
You should never allow yourself to settle for mediocrity because you deserve greatness. Never forget it.