Do you know the signs that reveal untrue (false) love?
Are you in love with the person you recently started dating?
In the beginning, everything seems beautiful and romantic: you feel like this is the person you always wanted to be with. But deep down, are you really sure?
Aren’t you a little confused as to whether you made the right decision or not?
There are certain things that you feel like this relationship isn’t working.
It is not loved that needs to be persecuted.
The truth is that you are afraid of losing the person and try to ignore these signs.
But you need to understand whether your relationship will work or not. We are here to guide you.
Check this list of 6 characters and identify them:
(1) You two have no chemistry:
The relationship is not just about opposing poles that attract each other. Many factors combine to form what we call the “chemistry” of a relationship. Two people may be attracted to and even like each other, but it is not necessary that they form chemistry.
You will understand that chemistry arises when both of you sense each other’s presence even when you’re not together when both are in harmony and the people around you feel your vibration and talk about how well you fit together, no matter where you go. Your presence is felt as a couple, not as an individual.
If the relationship isn’t like that, or if you feel like you never have that mood, then it’s definitely not true love.
(2) Your partner never compliments you:
We are social beings and we have our own problems, both professional and personal. The purpose of a relationship is to find peace and to be happy. Sometimes we need compliments from our significant other to make us feel like we are precious, that we are loved. Giving a compliment like “wow, you are beautiful” or “the food you cooked is really delicious” is not praise. It’s just an affirmation of the fact that we are loved.
Compliments make us feel good, they make us feel good about ourselves. When it comes to the person who is closest to us, it can even make a disastrous day better. In a healthy relationship, both couples occasionally give compliments to show how happy they are together. So if you don’t get compliments from your partner, you’re going in the wrong direction.
(3) Your partner behaves like you don’t exist at all:
We all need space in our relationships. But too much space is also a red warning. Your partner may be busy, but they should also make time for you. He or she has his / her job, friends, and co-workers to hang out with, but you still exist and he/she needs to understand that. You are special to that person.
Your partner should take time for you and not pretend you don’t exist at all. Commitment is just the beginning of a relationship. A relationship is like a beautiful plant that needs to be looked after. You have to give her time. When your partner sheds this responsibility for maintaining the relationship, it is time for you to consider breaking up the relationship.
(4) You need to explain your partner’s behavior to your colleagues:
You’re in a relationship for being happy
“Why didn’t he even bother calling you when you were sick?”
“Why don’t you two go out for lunch? It’s been a while. ”
“Why does he always have to bring his friends with him when he picks you up from us? Do you never spend time just for two? ”
Do you get these questions from your parents and friends and have to explain everything every time? Why do you need to justify actions that hurt yourself? It bothers you more.
Think carefully. You did not doubt it. Your colleagues also ask. You can see the relationship with an unbiased eye and you too have seen life.
These actions, which you defend as “normal” or “natural”, are not acceptable. Understand that this is untrue love.
(5) You have a communication disorder:
The communication gap is one of the essential elements in a relationship that requires immediate attention. How many times has it happened to you that you have to think a hundred times before you say something to your partner or text them? How often do you feel that you cannot communicate with your partner?
Soulmates get along best. True love requires that two people understand without words. If it doesn’t, then one has to accept the harsh truth that the relationship will not work. This is a clear sign of untrue love.
(6) There is no tendency to be together in the future:
If it is true love, then you should plan for a lifetime. For soul mates, it is a matter, of course, to forge future plans and dreams together, such as planning a vacation in Europe when you both have saved enough money or to buy a car or to get married in the next few years. Are you discussing this with your partner?
Has it happened that you tried to talk about these things and your partner avoided responding or said not to dream so many things? You need to fully understand whether or not your partner will see life with you in the future. If you don’t have this security, it is normal to lose trust in the relationship, as such relationships can never work.
Understand that this is a sign of untrue love.
This is hard to break away from, but remember that if you don’t break up, your partner will eventually leave you.
So, if you find these signs in your relationship, end them before you get too emotionally involved.
You will soon find your true love. Good luck!