For those who have never experienced it, love is simple. But for those who knew it, love is the most complicated thing in the world.
When we love someone, we must make efforts, we must listen, we must understand and above all, we must feel good by doing all this.
It is true that men and women think love differently, so here are some reasons why she does not believe that you love her, even if you love her.
1. You do not talk to him like before
Maybe she’s thinking about your past, wanting you to be the same man she loved.
She does not understand why you are silent with her and why you only speak when someone else is there.
She does not understand what she did wrong or why you do not act like before.
She keeps all this to herself and wants you to become her hero who would be there to listen to all her problems and help her solve them.
Maybe you are tired, maybe you have had a hard day’s work. Maybe the whole month has been shitty for you, but it’s not she who should feel the consequences.
Remember that women are more sensitive than men and can feel the slightest change.
So pay attention to her and show her how much you love her.
Show him that she is your first and last choice. Show him that you care about her.
2. You are stuck in a routine
When you are in a long-term relationship, it is very easy to get into a routine.
Imagine working all day, caring for children, assuming your responsibilities and not having the time to relax and have fun.
Any relationship would begin to be unstable in these circumstances. That’s why you both need to make an extra effort to improve your relationship.
If you think that you do not spend enough time with her, postpone all your obligations and stay with her.
You can surprise her at work, invite her to lunch or just cuddle her while you spend time relaxing in front of the TV.
Believe me, she will cherish every moment that she will spend with you and in this way you will be able to establish a deeper connection.
3. She stopped trusting you
Once she stops trusting you, you can not find that trust so easily.
If she does not trust you, it will be difficult for her to feel extreme love for you.
In fact, it’s not because she does not trust you that she will think you do not like her.
She will think that you play with her and that you are with her only because you do not want to be single.
She will feel extremely anxious with you and she will not believe what you are saying. All the more reason for her to think you do not like it.
She will think of the worst possible scenario and she will be devastated because of that.
What she needs is for you to share her thoughts with you.
She needs you to be open and connect emotionally with her.
Without that, she will feel bad because she does not get the love she needs from you.
4. It has been abandoned so many times
She can not relax because she has been hurt too often before.
People who told her that they would never leave her left her at the first hurdle. Those who claimed to be her best friends left her without explanation.
She had so many heartaches that she does not believe anyone can fall in love with her anymore.
She is afraid of never finding the love she deserves and that is why she has a carapace.
But if you make an effort and show that she can trust you, you will have the best girl in the world.
You will have a lifelong friend, a lover and someone you can always count on.
All she needs is that you show her that you will be there and that you will not leave like the others.
If you manage to give him that, she will be the happiest person in the world.
5. Others have persuaded her that she is not doing well enough
In her past relationships, she was convinced that she was not good enough.
She always supported anything and everything, buying peace in her relationship with her tears.
She’s the best girl you can find, but not everyone saw it.
Everyone has not seen her heart of gold and that’s why she’s so broken now. She still thinks she’s not good enough and she feels the same way with you.
But if you see something else, try to convince her that she is wrong.
Tell her that she is an extraordinary person and that any man would be happy to have him at his side.
Show her that you cherish every moment you have with her and that having her for you is all you can wish for.
6. She has low self-esteem
She always thinks the others are right and she is wrong. Her self-esteem is low and that’s why she can not believe that a man like you can fall in love with her.
She is anxious every time you talk to another girl because she thinks you will find that she is much more fun and that you will stay with her.
She does not think she has value. She does not think herself worthy.
She does not think anyone can love her with all her heart. That’s why she does not believe that you like her.
She needs you to show her that she is everything you dream of. She needs you to show her that she is a woman of the purest soul and soul you have ever known.
She needs to feel that you agree with spending the rest of your life with her.
She must understand that she is your first choice and that you would never do anything to hurt her. So, please, help her to understand it.