So here’s the scenario; you meet a guy and you really like him. You feel like you’ve established some kind of rapport with him. It thrills you that you have a really special connection with one another and so you take a chance on him. You both get into a relationship and everything is really swelling at the start. Everything is so exciting, wonderful, new, and fresh. It’s a whole new world to you and you want to make sure that you’re going to make the best of it; that you’re not going to screw anything up. And for the most part, you do a really good job at it.
Your relationship carries on and transitions from the honeymoon stage to where you guys are really establishing a rhythm and routine with one another. But then the problems are going to start to present themselves in the relationship as well. You will come to realize all too quickly that your relationship isn’t perfect and that you’re going to have to work really hard for it. And if you’re lucky enough, you have a love and commitment in your relationship that actually powers the both of you through whatever trials you might have to face.
You might be so committed to making things work with one another that your relationship just keeps jumping over whatever hurdle is set in front of you. You should be proud to have a relationship like that. You should be happy to be in love in that manner. Your relationship just keeps breaking every ceiling and you keep on taking things to the next level. But what if you find yourself in some kind of stagnation? You know that your relationship has been through a lot. You and your partner are practically solid at this point. But you also know that you need to take things one step further.
You know that you’re ready for the next phase of your relationship – but you wonder: is he? Is your partner ready to make that real commitment to you? Is he prepared to go down on one knee and ask you to spend the rest of your life with him? And are you prepared to give him an answer if ever he does? Well, these are all perfectly valid questions to have when things start to get really serious in your relationship. And sometimes, some couples will just be confident about where they stand as far as their relationships are concerned. But you still can’t help but wonder how he really feels. You want to get inside of his brain to figure things out.
You really want to get to the bottom of it all. But you also don’t want to come off as someone who is needy and pushy. You don’t want to be pressuring him into making that jump with you. But you still need answers – and you want to obtain them in an unobtrusive manner. Fortunately for you, that’s precisely what this article is for. It’s going to teach you how to really read your man and see just how serious he is about you and your relationships. You probably know by now that you can tell a lot about how a man feels based on how he acts whenever he’s with you. And if you notice that he does these 5 things in your relationship, then he’s dead serious about spending the rest of his life with you – and you practically have nothing to worry about.
1. He compliments you on more than just how you look.
It means that he no longer just sees you like a casual acquaintance or a visual object of pleasure. He really sees you for who you are. He acknowledges the depth of your personality and the beauty of your soul.
2. He introduces you to the most important people in his life.
He knows that the only way the two of you are ever going to share a life together is if you both integrate your social circles. And he does a great job of just making sure that you are well-acquainted with all the important people in his life.
3. He makes you feel included in planning for his future.
He never excludes you from the planning process. He always makes you feel like you have a stake in his future; he never holds back from making you feel included. He treats you like a genuine partner he can envision being with forever.
4. He tells you about his deepest and most intimate feelings.
He opens up to you. He lets himself become vulnerable with you. He is showing you his heart and his soul because he trusts you with the most intimate aspects of his being.
5. He makes an effort to make your life as easy as possible.
He really goes out of his way to make you happy. He does whatever he can to simplify your life; to make you feel like you can always rely on him for anything.