13 PHRASES TO NEVER SAY TO A MAN
How did the situation get worse so quickly?
Surely because you said one of the following sentences!
Many women crave conversations where they reveal their feelings and attitudes about absolutely everything.
Maybe women aren’t from Venus and men aren’t from Mars, but sometimes they seem to be from planets far, far away.
Men, unlike women, don’t like in-depth discussions about their feelings.
If you want harmony in your relationship, find out what you should never say to your partner.
Some words or phrases can be razor sharp and cause a lot of pain and discomfort.
Sometimes, when certain words are spoken at a really bad time, they even cause a rift.
Women are considered the most sensitive gender, but men also have their weaknesses, which need to be understood.
There are things you shouldn’t tell him.
It doesn’t matter if you’ve been together for three months or three years.
13. My ex was doing the same thing!
Even when it comes to a positive comparison, your partner never wants to hear anything from your ex-boyfriend.
In addition to undermining his confidence with such a comment, you can give the impression that you are still in love with your ex.
12. We need to talk about something!
This is one of the phrases that announces bad news.
For some reason, women like to use it for all the important conversations they want to start with their partner.
The man becomes a secret agent trained not to reveal vital information.
In translation: he closes his mouth and frantically waits for you to tell him what his fault is as the past few weeks spin around in his head, trying to remember when he screwed up.
11. Am I fat?
Any disparagement of yourself puts you in a very precarious light, which men don’t like.
And remember that 99% of the weaknesses you keep pointing out go unnoticed.
The self-critical way we look at ourselves only really exists within ourselves.
10. Honestly, I don’t know what I would do without you…
I must admit that this sentence seems harmless.
But it’s not always the case.
This phrase is only acceptable in a long-term relationship or marriage.
In the case of a new relationship, the man immediately begins to plan an escape.
He’s getting too serious about it all, so watch those words.
9. You never listen to me…
Men are horrified at the thought of these words.
And as soon as men hear this sentence, they automatically switch to the defense mechanism and instead of the civilized conversation they were hoping for, they end up throwing out loud statements without arguments.
Instead of saying that, talk about issues when you’re both rested and in control of your words and actions.
8. Why don’t you just admit you don’t know?
In some situations, this is a perfectly understandable reaction.
For example, the boiler needs to be repaired, and the man immediately goes to work.
However, after a day or two there is still no hot water.
But just because men aren’t good at certain things doesn’t mean they want to hear it or know about it.
7. Do you think this woman is beautiful?
It’s a question that puts him in a desperate position, although the poor man is not to blame.
If he answers yes, further questions follow.
If he replies that the other woman is not beautiful, then he is obviously lying.
Then you’ll wonder what else he lied to you about.
6. Come on, it can happen to anyone!
Men don’t like people to talk about their failures.
Women, on the other hand, think it makes it easier for them.
Although it really can happen to anyone, men see it as a personal failure that can only be corrected by success.
For this reason, women can expect a variety of incredible efforts from their “fallen warriors” to regain lost pride.
5. Pauline cheats on her husband, but doesn’t tell anyone!
Not only do you bother him with other people’s stories.
But in addition the actions of this person are not moral.
Finally, you ask him to keep it a secret.
And if he reveals it, you will be angry with him.
4. You should do this…
Most men have had a mother who told them what to wear, how to talk, how to sit and how to behave at the table during lunch.
And although they accept a certain amount of criticism from their wives, they will not appreciate a woman who controls everything they do.
3. Your mom/your friends are horrible
It is not advisable to express your dislike not only for his mother, but also for friends and other people close to him, including his dog.
In short, these people are important to him and he cannot live without them.
If you don’t like someone, you shouldn’t express your hostility openly, but accept it diplomatically.
2. When are we going to get married/have a baby?
When you are in a happy and fulfilling relationship, it is natural to dream of a perfect marriage and beautiful children walking around the apartment.
Feel free to dream about it, but don’t talk about it with your partner.
Especially if you recently started your relationship.
Even if he expects it himself, he doesn’t want to talk about it out loud.
Moreover, such a serious subject will not be discussed until you are both sure of the eternity of your relationship.
Otherwise, the man will feel the pressure your relationship needs to move to the next level.
1. You are a mama’s boy!
Dating a mommy boy is always very difficult, but if you love him and want to spend your life with him, don’t blame him for that fact.
If his mother is the most important thing to him, accept her or leave him, because the situation will not change even when he turns 50.
Are you ready ?
If so, then love and appreciate his mother more than yours and he will love you for the rest of his life.