10 things a man does who really wants to be in your life
No one ever said romantic relationships were easy. However, I sometimes think that we tend to complicate things more.
We have been so disappointed by the men of our past that we now have a hard time trusting those who come into our lives.
We constantly question ourselves and wonder if they are sincere. Does he really like me? Does he want to commit?
Is he manipulating me? Is he lying to me? Dozens of questions invade our minds and we ourselves find it difficult to be sincere and honest.
We erect protective walls, we remain on our guard and we think twice before committing ourselves. In fact, we apply the theory of “Measure twice and cut once”.
I imagine that you too have experienced this. After all, all women have experienced at least one love betrayal in their lives.
Was he unfaithful? Was he afraid of the future? Was he only looking for the “positives” of a relationship without having to suffer the “negatives”?
In the end, it doesn’t really matter. The reason can be valid or it can be completely stupid.
In the end, the result was the same: you were heartbroken. You found yourself alone overnight asking yourself questions like:
What made him run away? What did I do wrong? Why doesn’t he love me? And I pass the best.
All these questions are legitimate and normal even. And don’t worry, you’re far from the only one to have experienced this kind of anxiety phase.
Now, you may be disappointed with men and their lack of involvement. You may be confused by modern seduction techniques.
But, to tell you the truth, romantic relationships and the dating world are not that complicated.
If a man likes you, he’s going to want to spend time with you. And that’s all ! And you’ll never have to question his feelings and his sincerity.
How to easily find out if a man likes you?
You are probably wondering how to be sure of your partner’s feelings. How not to fall into the same pattern as before?
You want to be sure that the man who shares your life is really madly in love with you. You want to make sure he’s genuinely interested in building a stable future with you.
And I’m going to let you in on a secret: it’s easy as pie. If you want to know if your man is really obsessed with you, you just have to observe his behavior.
If you are able to recognize the following 10 characteristics in him, then you have hit the jackpot. Your partner respects and loves you more than anything.
1. He’s the opposite of every guy you’ve ever dated.
He offers you ideas for gallant appointments. He makes plans and sticks to them. And he cooks you dinner and is very romantic.
He doesn’t care if it’s sugary or laughable. He is emotionally stable, gentle and you can count on him.
And when you meet this kind of man who wants to be a full part of your life and goes out of his way to make you happy, you know it!
He’s the complete opposite of all the men you’ve dated so far. He’s the one you’ve been waiting for all your life.
2. You are his priority!
Of course, his career, his goals, his friends and his family are extremely important to him. But if your partner really likes you, he will always make sure to put you first.
You are his priority so he never cancels your plans and, if he has to for some reason, he warns you in time. He doesn’t wait until the last minute.
Whatever’s going on in his life, he finds time for you. He’s the kind of guy who’s going to want to go out with you, even if he’s sick or has an important project due the next day.
Seeing your smile and giving you time is very important to him because, in this way, he proves to you by his actions that he is really interested in you.
So even if communication isn’t always his cup of tea, you can still gauge your worth to him by watching his efforts to spend time with you.
3. You have a big place in his life.
He not only invites you to meet his friends and family, but he completely includes you in his personal life.
He suggests that you spend your holidays with his family or go out for drinks with his lifelong friends.
He clearly wants to send the message that both are serious. He wants all of his loved ones to meet you and like you.
And he wants you to find your place in his life. A permanent place… He wants to occupy a place in your life as well.
And he knows that to obtain this privilege, he must make efforts to include you in all spheres of his life.
He understands that you are two separate individuals, but he also wants your lives to merge and stabilize.
He needs to know that you feel comfortable and safe with him and his loved ones.
4. He thinks you have a positive influence on him.
Your boyfriend is worth it and he is the right man for you. He is perfectly aware of your value and your qualities.
He sees that you are strong and that you have confidence in yourself. And he has great respect for your work ethic.
He knows you didn’t just change his life. You encouraged him to become the best possible version of himself.
You supported him in his projects and you reached out to him when he failed. You were also always there to celebrate his victories with him.
He is therefore aware of the positive influence you have on him. And to thank you and to prove his appreciation, he does his best to devote quality time to you.
He also wants to be a positive influence in your life, as you are to him. That’s how love works, right?
He couldn’t even imagine not reciprocating you after all he considers to be your contribution to his life.
5. He always tells you how he feels about you.
He’s the kind of man who could say all day long that he’s in love with you.
And since it’s always nice to hear those famous three words, you’re not complaining.
You appreciate his honesty and his ability to communicate his emotions. Besides, he makes it clear to you that he wants to be completely open and sincere with you.
Which is news for you. In all of your ex-relationships, you were the one who seemed sticky because she talked about her feelings.
You looked like the woman who asked too much when you asked your ex to tell you how he felt about you.
You always felt like you were the only one carrying the romantic relationship on your back.
So, now that you have a partner who isn’t afraid to be vulnerable or seem sensitive, you’re thrilled.
This reassures you and it prevents you from constantly asking yourself the same question: does he really love me?
He clearly loves you… He tells you that every day!
6. He can’t live without you.
As soon as he realizes that he is in love with you, a big change will take place in him.
It’s not something you forced or demanded of him. Quite simply, he will understand that he sincerely cares about you and his behavior will change.
Suddenly, he won’t be able to imagine his life without you. And he will especially appreciate all the happiness you bring him.
He will realize that he has become a mature and responsible man by your side. And the best part is that you won’t even have to ask him anything.
This process happened naturally. Because the love he feels for you combined with his desire to grow up and settle down have pushed him to change his lifestyle.
And since he hopes that you feel the same for him, it will make him overjoyed.
7. Whenever you’re away, he misses you.
Little advice: if you want your man to understand how perfect you are for him, erase yourself a little.
Spending some time apart will do you a world of good. As soon as you leave, he will realize that he misses you a lot! And he will even have a hard time believing it himself.
You will then have a serious conversation where you will agree that you cannot spend too much time apart.
So you’re going to start spending more and more time together and you’re going to become true lovebirds.
Outside of work and a few drinks with your girlfriends, you will spend most of your time with the man who shares your life.
And honestly, is there a better way to spend your days and evenings than in your sweetie’s arms?
8. He doesn’t see your flaws or unimportant little worries as valid reasons for breaking up.
There are more or less glorious periods in a woman’s life and that’s completely normal.
So, have you decided not to eat any protein this month or to cut out the alcohol for two weeks?
Are you super stressed about your job right now? So what ? Your partner loves you for who you are and doesn’t try to change you.
Everything that happens or everything that happens to you is not a problem for him. He understands quite simply that all romantic relationships go through difficult or bizarre times.
There are ups and downs and you have to face whatever life throws your way together.
Since he really wants to be with you, he doesn’t see these little flaws or these moments of distraction as reasons for breaking up with you.
And, it’s a very reassuring and mature attitude on his part. Clearly he is aware that he is not perfect either.
So how could he expect perfection from you? Even if, deep down, he really thinks you’re perfect for him!
9. He tells you clearly that he is not afraid of the future.
Legend has it that men are afraid of serious commitment. In any case, this is what we hear repeatedly!
Your partner is acutely aware of this stereotype and makes sure you don’t lump him in with those men who run off.
He tells you clearly that he is not afraid of the future because he is with you and because he sincerely loves you. It’s that simple !
In this way, he tries to tell himself that he has no reason to be afraid and he tries to make you understand that you can count on him.
He wants to reassure you and bring you some peace of mind. He has no plans to let you down and he wants to work hand in hand with you to build your common future.
10. He is always looking to move your romantic relationship forward.
Do you wonder why you wasted so much time wondering about your ex’s feelings?
Hmm… It’s because now you’re in a mature, healthy relationship. You receive love, respect and compassion.
So you tell yourself that you really wasted your time with your exes. You even regret not having been able to read the warning signs in time to leave earlier.
But, at the same time, those disappointments in love led you to where you are now.
You now know that a man who is truly in love with you is always looking to advance your romantic relationship.
From the first steps, to the famous three words, passing through the meeting with the parents… He wants to go through the different stages of your relationship and he does not slow down its development.
With him, you never wonder if things are serious and you don’t worry about whether your relationship has a future.