10 signs that you can see early on that he is not right for you.
1. HE SHOWS NO INITIATIVE.
Unlike a real man, he lets you do all the work when it comes to the relationship. You work hard and invest time and energy, while he does not move a finger and sits back. In 9 out of 10 cases, if you do something together, it’s up to you. You plan your weekends together and fulfill his longings.
The worst part is that you have only recently become a couple. If he were the right person for you, then he would make more effort, especially now at the beginning of your relationship. What will it look like later?
2. THE FAMOUS “I’M SO DAMN BUSY.”
Well”I’m so damn busy” is a common excuse. Most likely, you roll your eyes whenever using that phrase. And even if you know in-depth that nobody is so busy that you can not report.
Because you are never too busy for the people you are interested in and with whom you can imagine a future. You take your time for people when they mean something to you, that’s the way it is and if it does not, that’s a sure sign that it’s not right for you.
3. HE IS NOT STANDING IN PUBLIC WITH YOU.
If your meetings rarely take place in public places, such as just at night or just in a remote location where no one can see you, then he’s up to no good. Then there would be several guesses that might apply, one that he just wants s*x from you and the second is that you’re his plan B and the third is that he has another woman in her head that should not catch any of you. In any case, that is a sign that he is not right for you.
4. HE WILL NOT MEET YOU.
There is no compromise with him and meeting you halfway would never come to his mind. He does not go out to dinner with your family, he does not stay home when you’re sick, he does not watch a movie he does not like, and so on, this list could go on forever. It just shows that he does not care what you want, and that’s also a sure sign that he’s not right for you.
5. HE AVOIDS GETTING TO KNOW YOUR FRIENDS.
Friends are important because they can make you feel good outside of a relationship, and their opinions should be important to you too, especially at the beginning of a relationship. But he rejects your friends and avoids introducing you to his friends, then you should give that to you. He probably does not plan this relationship too long in the future, otherwise he would get to know his important person.
6. HE TRIES TO CHANGE YOU AT ANY COST.
He did not even bother to get to know you properly and he starts to tell you what mistakes you make and judges your behavior towards him. He emphasizes the things you could do differently and nothing you do seems right. This is an indication of an emotional psychopath. Because he has no right to make you feel you are not enough for him.
If you’re in love right now, you might not notice it right away, because you’re just focusing on the good side of it. He is anything but perfect, even if you want to persuade that, but if he makes you feel that you are not enough for him and you need to change, then imagine how much worse Relationship is, if she goes on like this.
7. HE BEHAVES IMMATURE.
Sometimes he is cold to you and sometimes he is passionate about you. First he gives you all his attention, to withdraw them in the next moment. In a minute he is there for you and in the next one he disappeared without a trace.
He waits a long time for an answer to your messages. His eyes are often with other women and he enjoys it when you are jealous. If that’s true, then he’s not mature enough for a relationship, and that’s not going to change for him.
8. EVERYTHING YOU DO CAUSES HIM TO OVERREACT.
He has a need to be always right and to show you that you are wrong. It’s almost as if he has a competition in the right he always wants to win. He forgets that being in a relationship is not about winning, it’s about working together and finding a solution together. If he puts his ego over your luck, then he is not the right one for you.
9. YOU ARE NOT YOURSELF NEAR HIM.
You behave completely untypically for you. You are nervous and are secretly afraid of making a mistake. You pretend to like things that you do not really like. Every relationship brings changes to one’s life, but when life gets worse, it’s a relationship with the wrong person. Because when you are with the right person, it relaxes your everyday life and makes you a better version of yourself and not someone you do not want to be.
10. HE ONLY WANTS YOU WHEN THINGS ARE GOING WELL.
You can not always be in a good mood. You too have your bad days and can not always be the best version of yourself. That’s life, the bad days are just as important as the good ones. But if you realize that he only wants to be with you, if you laugh and are happy, while he shines with absence, if you feel bad, then that is a clear sign that he is not the good one for you.