You were blind to seeing all the signals she sent you when she called you to save her. She desperately wanted to save your relationship and your love. But you never listened because you were busy with other things and everything else was more important to you than you.
And that indifference broke her fragile heart. Over and over again. Then, in a moment, she decided to leave you. She has decided to stop you from ruining her life. And if you ever wonder why she left you, here’s what she would say to you:
1. She left you for lack of love.
All she ever wanted was for you to love her the way she loved you. She was deeply, madly and in love with you without any restrictions. But you felt something different. For you, love was something that happened the moment it suited you, with many calculations. Your love was wrong, and when she realized that, she decided to break the bridges between you two.
2. She left because she had to fight for your attention.
She suffered every time you focused your attention on any other girl sitting near you than on her. And you have sworn that she is the most important person in your life. Is this the right way to treat the person you love most? I do not believe that. Thank God she recognized that in time and decided to keep going.
3. She’s gone for emotional abuse.
She could not stand you treating her badly. She could not go on living with the poisonous man you turned into, so she decided to escape that poisonous relationship. And when she finally left you, she really became happy.
4. She has gone out of lack of respect.
She did not want to argue with you every day. But for you, arguing was like saying “hello” – a normal thing you did every day. Without getting tired, you just wanted to see her emotionally dead, with no strength to stand up and fight for yourself. By running away, she saved herself from destruction.
5. She left you because you ignored her.
You just did not treat her like a woman you love. You treated her like someone you just met and someone you did not have to talk to. She knew she deserved better and that her concept of love is completely different from everything you’ve shown her so far.
6. She left because she realized that she deserved more than just a fast relationship.
She found out in the end that you will never give her the love she really needs. She knew that a broken man like you can never give her heart. She knew he was unable to let the demons out of his past. And so she decided to keep going and live a decent life.
7. She left because she realized that a relationship is not a one-way street.
She knew that both partners had to work hard for love to endure. But you did not give her anything she longed for. And that has made her whole world crumble.
8. She left because you gave her every reason to do that.
You treated her like shit instead of loving and respecting her. She was a woman to love, but you were too blind to see it. And that’s the only reason you’ll never be allowed to touch her again. You will never be able to sleep with her again. You will never be able to watch her sleep. And that’s all your fault.
9. She left because she realized she was worthy.
She woke up one day and realized that you always told her lies. She stopped believing that she was no longer worthy. She saw how other people treated her with love and respect, and she finally realized she was more than enough.
10. She left because she did not want to be controlled anymore.
She did not want to be someone to tell what to do and where to go. She had her own life and wanted to enjoy it to the fullest. Since she was no longer blindly in love, she decided to take the first step towards a new life – without the torments in which she had lived so long.